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I couldn’t leave this site without saying Thank You and Goodbye. My partner sadly passed away in April (he was the COPD sufferer) and I have stayed on here in the background in the hope that I could help someone, as so many of you have helped us both over the years. Unfortunately, it is all too painful to stay on the site, bringing back some things I’d rather forget.

I cannot thank you all for the help and advice that you have given over the years, not to mention the good wishes if you couldn’t offer any help. It was reassuring to know that others knew what we were going through at the time,

This is a great group and a lovely bunch of people and I wish you all so much hope and encouragement to carry on with your journeys. Keep up the exercises if you can, go to pulmonary rehab if you get the opportunity. Listen to what the experts are telling you. Don’t give up.

Sending you all big hugs.

BusNut

Xxx

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Jaybird19 profile image
Jaybird19

So sorry to hear about your partner . Hope you manage to find some peaçe and you will always be welcome to return if you wish

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RoadRunner44

Take a break but when the time is right and when you are ready, come back you know you will be welcomed with open arms. Sending kind wishes. X

Wishing you all the best BusNut. I am so sorry that you have lost your husband and hope that you will your way through this horrible time to a settled and positive future.

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Oshgosh

Remember we are always here to listen to you x

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sassy59

So sorry for your loss BusNut, hoping you feel you can drop by for a chat anytime you want to. Thinking of you. Xxx💕🤗

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tomc

So sorry for your loss BusNut. we are always happy to see you and talk with you anytime you want to come on site. Love and my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Tom.

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Katinka46

Thank you so much for your post and for telling us your story. I can understand how distressing it is. We wish you all the very best Kate xxx

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Damon1864Volunteer

So sorry to hear about your partner Busnut, but please take good care of yourself. Remember we are always here if Yu out feel like returning or just popping in for a chat. Good luck for the future have a wonderful day and take care love 😊 Bernadette and Jack 🐕 xxxxxxx 🌻🌻💖

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Amanda3011

So sorry to hear this , I’m not very often on here but yes it’s a godsend to have this website for all the friendly support , look after yourself sweetheart sending hugs 🤗xx

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Patsy164

Condolences and so sorry for the loss of your partner. My thoughts go to you and your family. Hoping that in time you will be in a peaceful position and come back to say hello.

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SORRELHIPPO

Will think of you, and hope you manage to find the peace you need.

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Thepainterswife

So sorry to hear this , I hope in time you’re able to take pleasure in life again 🙏🥰 x

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Ravey

💔sending you and your family love and strength 🥰

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Biofreak

Very sorry for your loss BusNut. I hope you find peace and I wish you well for the future. Look after yourself. X

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peege

So sorry to hear your partner has passed away, so sad for you. Bless you for popping in to say goodbye and very best wishes for the future ❤

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teddyd

Sorry for your loss. Maybe at some point you will feel you can come back and help others, but for now look after yourself xx

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Caspiana

Hello BusNut. Like everyone else I wish you all the very best. I am sorry to hear about the passing of your partner and I also understand the need to slowly move on. Best wishes to you.Cas xx 🌷🌿🌷

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madonbrew

Dear BusNut, I’m really sorry to hear about your loss! I can only but imagine how difficult it is! Look after you!

Dee 💐

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Patk1

Xxx

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BronchyBronwen

BusNut, I am really so sorry to hear of the sad loss of your husband. Please accept my deepest sympathy. As others here have already said, it is so important for you to look after yourself now. All good wishes to you. xx

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Trishe

So very sorry to hear your sad news, I hope one day you will return to the group, we will be here waiting to give you a warm welcome back.For now, take time for you.

Trish 🤗 x

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ElsaC

Such sad news about your partner. All good wishes for the future.

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Alberta56

So sorry to hear that you have lost your partner. I hope the pain will pass and leave you will be able to remember the good times. Thank you for your good wishes. xxx

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battison

So sorry to hear your sad news, all love and strength to you as you find a way to go forward. I truly believe your partner will watch over you. Love never dies. (I lurk on this site as my partner so struggles with COPD and I find the advice and kindness so helpful)

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battison in reply to battison

Ps also, after 2.5 years waiting he now has a telephone ‘triage’ appt for pulmonary rehab this week. He wasn’t convinced it was worth it. After your timely advice above he has a different view. Than you x

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BusNut in reply to battison

Ah bless him. I truly believe that if you can keep yourself active (or at least have some form of mobility it helps with the condition. My partner hated rehab and only went once (don’t tell your husband that 😉) although he would do some of the exercises (when I wasn’t looking 🙄) but unfortunately he suffered with long covid and basically lost the use of his legs and ended up in a wheelchair, I do wonder if he had done more of the rehab whether the latter wouldn’t have happened. Good luck xxx

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Lfcpremier

So very sorry to read this. Hoping that eventually your happier memories will bring you some peace. Sending love & hugs. Linda x

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Jansybelle

So sorry to hear of your sad loss. I was in the same position as you, last December 10th I lost my husband, COPD and heart condition. I decided to stay on this great site, persuaded by Don, I can’t help anybody with advice but like to read comments and enjoy Don’s great poems! I also found comfort in knowing that it was the best thing for my husband, always so cheery and happy, even in hospital, but he wasn’t having a good life. But we were lucky to have had 63 happy years together, and produced a lovely family who look after me well.So I count my blessings every day.

Best wishes.

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Greenthorn

Hello Busnut, thank you fo letting us know that you are on a new journey. Wherever you are and wherever you may be, may you find new hands of friendship and support. X

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Ergendl

So sorry to hear how you've lost your partner. Wishing you all the best in the future at this crossroads in your life. We never forget, the way we think about the one we've loved and lost just changes over time.

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Bingo88

So sorry to hear about your loss BusNut. Hope you can carry on with enjoying your life eventually and hope you keep your eye on the group and just say hello from time to time. Please take care Xx

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ostiad

I'm so sorry for your loss of your Partner BusNut, I send my condolences. It is good that you found the strength to leave this message, without just disappearing, although, clearly painful for you. Maybe when the time feels right, you might possibly return to the site, even to just listen, who knows. I too am more of a watcher/listener with the occasional question or answer when I think appropriate.

Thinking of you ❤. June xx

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Digger0

Sorry to hear of your loss. Take care of yourself and remember the good times.

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watergazer

Sorry to hear about your partner. Take care. Maybe one day you’ll be back. Xx🤗

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Walkwalkwalk

It s wonderful that you said good bye in such a positive way with your posting. I wish you well. It’s such an early stage of your loss and it must hurt so much.

Today is the anniversary of my husband Harry dying. A long time ago. It still hurts but less so and happy memories are many and help so much.

Take care of yourself, as you are doing on taking this time out and may happier memories return for you.

My very best wishes

Grace

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Cinka

Thinking of you with love and prayers xx

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Souielouie

So sorry for your loss. Sending you a BIG WARM HUG. Take care Sue xx

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Rebecca6

Thank you for this lovely generous message. Time to look after you but please remember that you are so welcome any time you want to return or even visit .xx

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Lemon7

So sorry to hear of your loss. Best wishes to you. Take care of yourself.

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HollyBoyd

Hello BusNut. I'm so sorry to hear you have lost your partner and understand that you wish to say 'goodbye', for now. I do hope you have support from family and friends to help you through the difficult times. Do come back whenever you feel strong enough and take care xxx❤️

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katieoxo60

Sorry to hear of your loss and the groups loss of a member, you need time to grieve but you are welcome to come back anytime if you wish. Take care x

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Lapis5

So sorry for your loss. Rest and take good care of yourself now.

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suef

So sorry for you're loss. Xx

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Cloudancer

Thinking of you and wishing you well.

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Izb1

So sorry for your loss BusNut and can understand your need to move on. I wish you all the best and please feel free to come back anytime x

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pepparuby1

So sorry to hear of loss such an awful disease. We are here this forum no matter what x

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suelee123

So very sorry for your loss. Praying for you 🙏

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Burbagegran

So very sorry, for your loss, BusNut. Best wishes for whatever you do in the future and thank you. Joan xx

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Babyboy12

So sorry to hear this sad news about your husband. May he rest in peace 🙏🙏

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Babyboy12

My condolences to you Busnut and all that knew your husband. But from every one on here we wish you well and take your time if you want to come back or not we understand. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

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