Thank you everyone who replied to my last post. You're very understanding people.
Sooty was one of a large group of cats belonging to former neighbours. They moved, leaving most of the cats behind. The RSPCA caught most of them, but Soot escaped. She obviously decided RSPCA people are very dangerous- she thought a lot of things were very dangerous - roads, visitors, other cats, dogs. At first she lived in our garden as an outdoor cat, but gradually came to spend more time indoors. (We were relieved to find that she knew how to use a litter tray. ). She ended up spending most of her time on our sofa and finally passed on peacefully aged 18. At first any dark shape such as a black recycling bag looked like Soot.
Tell Scruffs I would like another cat ,but it will have to be a special one. Our road is so busy that a young energetic cat wouldn't last 5 minutes. An elderly indoor cat would be ideal. Preferably healthy, in case I'm ill when it needs to see the vet. My husband would like a black one, but he may have to put up with a tabby.
I should have warned cat-phobics not to bother reading this. Alberta xxx