The other end of the telescope

[ledge]

For those who don't know me, I am seriously compromised lung function wise. ( like many of you) and sadly I am going to self isolate for as long as I need to or my times up... what ever comes first.

However, my son, who has such joie de vivre, ( something I had until a few days ago) said, he is actively considering licking public handrails in the hope that he gets it, and gets it over asap..... then he can come and see me...

I get terrified touching a flyer that comes through my door...

How b£oody stupid is that ?

can post pictures, as I am not savvy in the pooter department

xxx

[sassy59]

You do what you feel you need to ledge and stay safe and well. Xxx

[ledge in reply to sassy59]

thanks my dear... I just thought I would post it as a throw away comment, However, a few years ago, well to be honest 10-20 I would have probably said the same. But it is interesting in the perspective isn't it?

[sassy59 in reply to ledge]

It certainly is. How times change. Xxx

[ledge in reply to sassy59]

Like I have always said, getting old .. is not for whimps..

more so with those of us with underlying conditions. We are warriors... Bless all warriors where every you are. xxx

[sassy59 in reply to ledge]

You’re right ledge. I’ve just turned to channel 4 news and heard people self isolating in Tuscany singing to each other. Wonderful. Warriors all. Xxxx

[ledge in reply to sassy59]

let us all virtual hug... this is much bigger and more wholesome

[Catlover432 in reply to sassy59]

I saw that on Facebook sassy. Brilliant, but I think you need a balcony☺️

[sassy59 in reply to Catlover432]

That lets us out then Catlover. I can always open an upstairs window perhaps. Lol xxxx

[ledge in reply to sassy59]

if I hung out of any upstairs window, I may be mistaken for a lady plying for trade

[sassy59 in reply to ledge]

What can I say to that ledge! Lol. Xxx 😘

[Catlover432 in reply to sassy59]

😎😎🤗

[skischool]

If your son is fit and healthy ledge then i imagine licking a few handrails and spending a few days in bed to pay the price for it will do him no harm and bring him back to you in no time.

Mind you please advise him only to lick handles above waist height.

Yes stay in for a while at least.like you my 24% lungs won't spread very far and like them i will not be spreading very far either.

Keep very well. xxx

[ledge in reply to skischool]

You make we laugh.... xxxxx

[ledge in reply to ledge]

me laugh... not we.. unless of course its the royal we.

must go to spec savers... well not at the moment I wont... so dodgy literals and bad tryping (sic) will have to suffice

[skischool in reply to ledge]

As long as i don't make you wee that's ok by me. x

[ledge in reply to skischool]

If I actually wet myself really really really laughing, I would thank god for childbirth, and good company xxxx only a woman would understand that one - or may be not its a celebration of a life worth lived xxxx

[skischool in reply to ledge]

Bless you ledge and the Tena maxis are winging their way to you as i type. x

[ledge in reply to skischool]

You are all heart... in fact the father Christmas of the incontinent. xxx Bet you never thought you would see that in print...xxxxx ha ha... laughing all the way to the toilet xxxx

[Comino2]

Your son may catch more than he bargained for licking all those handrails.......... maybe not wise considering there is a toilet paper shortage xx

[ledge in reply to Comino2]

I know... He didn't literally mean it. But I think he is resigned as a city worker travelling on the tube, he isn't going to dodge the bullet. He isn't looking forward to it. ( he is a man after all) say no more. However, I can remember I caught dysentery from travelling on the tube... and my doctor said, what exotic place have you been to now.. I replied Bank station.

However, my sons (cavalier attitude ) that made me circumspect our situations -

[Damon1864 Volunteer]

As long as you feel safe that's what counts. Have a good night and take care of yourself 😊 Bernadette xx

[ledge in reply to Damon1864]

Thank you Bernadette... but safe is a strange word in the context of things... big hug

[Annie04]

Keep safe and well Ledge xx

[Gladwyn]

I heard it too and it was so lovely very heartening! Makes me smile remembering x

[Lemon7]

Keep safe and best wishes.

[ledge in reply to Lemon7]

You too

[forge80]

I used to in my 20's be very careless (I'll use that word) with my health. I suffer with asthma and any colds coughs etc that I get always end in bronchitis or bronchial related illnesses. When one's young it's easy to bounce back, but 30 odd years later my body is older and doesn't respond the same way, it takes longer for recovery each time, each decade gets harder.

I believe that I am responsible for my own health in as far as possible so I will isolate myself to avoid all places where there are crowds and wash my hands as advised keep away from the things that set me off.

Yes in the last decades I've missed out on social gatherings especially when people could smoke in places, that's one if my triggers. avoiding my triggers has helped me no end even now though I still miss out on going to places where there’s high risk to catch infections and I’ve had to leave places when crowds have appeared. So yes see what sets you off avoid the things you know may make you ill and sensible living is what is needed.

All the best.

[ledge in reply to forge80]

Its a shame that our conditions isolate us one way or another...

[Hacienda]

Having A Giggle reading your Replies Hun, (Ski's), I have been in Self Isolation 11 Days today, No Immunity & Only 17% Lung Capacity. Hubby went to Asda yesterday for a couple of things on my list, Empty Shelves, I Needed Panty Liners, He sent me a Message, "Found Them, are they with "Wings" ? Ha Ha PML. Responded " Well as yet They haven't Flown off the Shelves". Stay Safe Hun and I'm sure your Strong Son will be with you soon. Love n Virtual Hugs XXX C.

[ledge in reply to Hacienda]

I hope my strong son will be wifh me soon.. cant say i wish him to become ill and i cant do a thing about it. You stay safe too. Xx

[Itsmeagain1]

Well ledge I went for my lung appointment yesterday she told me I have 25% lung capacity which 2 yrs ago was 24% so I thought whoo hoo I've improved she then put the dampners on that by saying if i got a infection i wouldn't survive it no bed side manner at all then when I thought my day couldn't get any worse I got in the lift with the driver who took me to the appointment and another lady the lift stuck the chap on the other end of the alarm system said we're get someone there as soon as even if im so out of breath never ever am i using a lift they said good thing we were on site or have been a long time eek wonderful day no wonder I broke down after no empathy no apoligy just your lucky we were on site eek if u feel u need to isolate yourself I don't blame u take care

[ledge in reply to Itsmeagain1]

Well dr blunt certainly put things into perspective.. but i guess i your heart of hearts you think along the same lines.

I feel the same that if i get it my numbers up. I know everyone had to die me included.. but not hopefully in utter chaos. Big hug to you x

[Itsmeagain1 in reply to ledge]

Bless i know but I'd stopped smoking had to stop taking peanuts becouse my blood pressure that had always been brilliant decided not to be anymore I can't do pulmonary rehab with high blood pressure what next I can't give up anymore I have no vices now no enjoyment I don't go out except food shopping highlight of my week I'd like some positive news for a change

[ledge in reply to Itsmeagain1]

I think the whole world would like some positive news... what dancing in the streets there would be then...xxx

[Itsmeagain1 in reply to ledge]

True i remember those days dancing not very good at it lol not a care in the world miss those days

[Oshgosh in reply to Itsmeagain1]

I know what you mean.

With all that’s going off I feel the need to get a tad drunk.

However,as I am on immunosuppressants and only allowed 6 units a week, I will have to seek out another vice,possibly lemon Swiss roll

[ledge in reply to Oshgosh]

I know what you mean..i polished off half a bottle of wine.. 2 big glasses and ended up with a banging headache.. may be i take a leaf from your confectionary vice book.

[Itsmeagain1]

And your son sounds lovely bless him

[ledge in reply to Itsmeagain1]

Xx

[Ragrug]

I have also decided to isolate myself starting radio tberapy next week so apart from trips to the hospital I'm home. Also my lovely daughter...kidney transplant 5 years ago is with me in this one. So we will play in our garden with our dogs ...do a bit of sewing....and well try and stay safe .Lovely neighbour's have offered to shop for us....and we live on a beautiful island...the sun is shining...so things are not bad...

Chins up everyone...take care...be well...and what a blessing this group is.

Ragrug

[ledge in reply to Ragrug]

X.. you almost make it sound like a staycation... keep safe ragrug xxx

[Grandmatojack]

I’ve self isolated since the start of this as I’m 67 with end stage COPD heart disease and diabetes along with other niggling problems. Every time I get a chest infection t turns to pneumonia so I won’t take the risk. I’ve also got a new grandchild to be born next month and there is no way in checking out till I’ve had my cuddles.

[ledge in reply to Grandmatojack]

that's t the spirit. xx

[Bronchi1]

In a way it feels like there is no other option.....cos the other option is not pretty.....look after you and do what makes you feel safe and not stressed.

[Reading4everyone]

I totally understand how you feel ledge. I have asthma and bronchiectasis and have decided to self isolate. I am trying to be as positive as I can. I see this time as free to me to take my time and do jobs that I never seem to have time for. I belong to a creative writing group so I can now spend time writing. I am also making time for gentle tai chi sessions as exercise is necessary for us and gives us positive vibes. Take care and think positive thoughts. Regards Marlene

[ledge in reply to Reading4everyone]

I shall think of you as I waive my arms around holding my imaginary energy ball. Along with talking to myself. I expect I will be doing a lot of that soon! ;-(

[Lfcpremier]

Ahh.... Better your son visits sooner rather than later if he can! Seize the day & all that😀. Our son lives in Canada so prob won't let him out soon...Here's hoping we can all keep well.. ish & occupied. The mind is equally, if not more, as important as the body.. Keep having to remind myself of this... as so many horror stories re the virus & not much positivity. Though we are expecting our 1st grandchild at the beginning of May. 😍😄😃

Stay safe!

Linda x

[ledge in reply to Lfcpremier]

sadly he only live a 30 minute drive from me.. which makes it all the worse.. Thinking of you and wishing lovely thoughts of being a grand parent

[Lfcpremier]

😊Xx