Decision made

[Oshgosh]

Yesterday was at my sons partying.i got a phone call.

My mum has been ill all year,92, 1 infection after the other.needing constant care.

She had said she wanted to see myself ,my brother and sister asap.

She also wanted to see the minister also quickly.

So off we drove with son in tow.

I rang the minister,who was on his way home from a friends.

He arrived in 25 minutes complete with Christmas jumper.

I spoke to my mum,she’s had enough,doesn’t want to take any more pills sipsof water only.

The minister came ,read a psalm and a prayer,it seemed to calm her.

So now we wait . Whilst Iunderstand how she feels,it’s hard.

[Hacienda]

Morning Hun, So Sad for you & your Family, I wish your Mum a Peaceful Leaving, as That is what she wants, especially having seen her Loving Family and her Humble Minister. Of Course you will all be Hurting, at 92 , you will all have Great Memories to celebrate for your Mum. Peace & Love to you Hun. XXX

[Oshgosh in reply to Hacienda]

Thank you

[Oshgosh in reply to Hacienda]

Yes,it was good that we were available and that the minister was coming back from his own break.

So her we were able to meet her wishes really quickly

[Hidden]

A sad time but must be faced and your Mum sounds well prepared and peaceful. Having you all assembled in that way will have helped her no end. I wish her much peace.

Yesterday my much loved Midge spent the day with my nephew and his wife who will be her new owners if anything happens to me. I intend that she will do that often in future. It might sound a bit morbid, but being prepared isn't just for boy scouts.

[Oshgosh in reply to Hidden]

That’s really thoughtful of you,making arrangements for Midges future.its really good her having away a days, I hope they spoilt her a little

How are you yourself? Thank you for your kind reply,it’s much appreciated.

[sassy59]

That’s very hard for you all. Sorry to hear about your mum but it sounds as if she’s feeling better about making her decision.

Thinking of you and remember we’re here for you. Love and gentle hugs, Carole xxx 💖

[Oshgosh in reply to sassy59]

Thank you

[Damon1864 Volunteer]

Hello it must be heartbreaking for you and your family, but if that's what your mother wants you have to respect it. Just let her know you are with her and how much she is loved. Thinking of you all and praying for you. Take care of yourself 😊 Bernadette xx

[Oshgosh in reply to Damon1864]

Thank you

[Hidden]

So sad for you, I hope you find the strength to help you through. XXX

[Oshgosh in reply to Hidden]

Thank you,have been resting today.

The lupus has got me today.

[corriena]

Such a difficult time for you all. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers and sending you all a supportive hugg

[Oshgosh in reply to corriena]

Thank you

[skischool]

Your mum has been very thoughtful and loving in advising you all of her decision and although it is very hard it is a decision you all must respect and help her with and make her last moments with you as calm and happy as possible.xx

[Oshgosh in reply to skischool]

Thank you

[Ergendl]

((((Hugs)))) Oshgosh.

[Oshgosh]

Thank you

[ledge]

Bless you all at this time, I wish your Mum a peaceful farewell from this earth. I wish you and your family to feel the comfort of her love to remain with you all your life, as that surely will never die.

Take care of yourself at this difficult time.

[Shirleyj]

I'm sending you love and hugs (((💗))) 💞 💞 x

[Dedalus]

How very sad and difficult this must be for you all but so good to see you are respecting your mum's wishes, bless her. I hope she won't suffer and that her passing will be gentle. Hugs x

[Oshgosh in reply to Dedalus]

Thank you for your concern.

She’s been ill all year in and out of hospital until we decided no more hospital.

I’m content that she was able to say what she wanted.

My mum isn’t the type to demand,so when shesaid she wanted to see us all we all Ran!

Luckily. I was able to get hold of the minister,so she got what she wanted quite fast.

TheGP has been.everythinginplace. I sat with her for a while this morning and my daughter visited.

So nothing more to be done.

[Dedalus]

My heart goes out to you all during this very difficult and sad time. Hugs x

[Oshgosh in reply to Dedalus]

Thank. You

[Izb1]

Thinking of you all and wishing your mum a peaceful passing x

[Oshgosh in reply to Izb1]

Thank you

[Lyd12]

That is sad, hope your mum will pass peacefully in her sleep, as my dad did. Love I ris xx