Thank you all for your responses. I am definitely not in danger of anything worse than sulking and stomping about
I meant to put a winky ๐ after my comment. My carer has watered my trees and using her Initiative also my herbs and lavender. I am most definitely not afraid of being on my own. Unfortunately no wives or girlfriends. Both have been put off by previous experience,such a shame. Having taken on board the comments about the male frame of mind I have managed to speak with my son who's first question when he got home from work was "do you need me to water the trees" followed by "I will fix the outside tap for the hose this weekend". Even after 15 years I still find it really hard to ask for what I need. I am so grateful for all of the advice I've received from you all. Today I have started on the flashcards. I thought that the best way to go would be to get the carers to write the cards themselves so that they can convey to others in the way they will understand.
Again thank you all
You guys got me through a bad spell and made me smile ๐. Loved the Will comment ๐
No problem, please, just always remember, we males, are so influenced by the power..women, especially our mothers, hold over us! You can get your way by just smiling. Lol.
Feel free to ask anything you like on here, someone will answer, you are not alone. God bless.
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Thanks to you all
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Big thank you (bottle update)
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