Hi
I've been told to avoid being around anyone with colds etc. How do you do this when it's someone you live with (husband)who's full of flu??
Just wondered how others manage this?
Hi
I've been told to avoid being around anyone with colds etc. How do you do this when it's someone you live with (husband)who's full of flu??
Just wondered how others manage this?
Not easy Dawnsunny. I find First Defense very good when I go into public places. I keep at a distance from anybody who obviously has a virus. If anyone in the family is ill I don't visit and tell them not to come to me until it is over.I do think that scrupulous handwashing is important and carry antibac gel with me. I live alone so don't have to worry about a partner with a cold etc but if I did live with someone, one of us would be sleeping in another room. It is very important because we have to remember that unlike the usually 'well' our lungs are damaged and vulnerable. Any virus infection can result in a secondary bacterial infection where nasty virulent bugs breed rapidly in our lungs and cause further damage.
It's a difficult one, both hubby and I work in schools and I foster a 15yr old. My daughter is at uni. Worried I'm not going to see them much as they bring home every bug going!
I'm wondering if I need to start my emergency antibiotics today.
My mucus is thicker this morning and has gone greener, I have an achy feel in my chest. I've done a sample and will drop off later. However after coughing up the mucus I feel better and not as crackly. What do you think? Should I wait and see how it pans out? I guess I'm worried about starting a full 14day course if it's not an infection ?
Dawn x
That's a hard one too. Sometimes, for some unknown reason these things resolve themselves after a couple of days. Mostly however, we actually know our personal signs that things are going pear shaped. I started 14 days cipro 3 days ago. I have been fine for 10 months, nebulising ceftazidime. Several days ago I started to feel v down with reduced energy. Then stiff and a bit wheezy ( unusual for me) on the right side. No increase or change in colour of mucus but 'not right'. Today I am breathing easier and actually got rid of a lot of stuff yesterday which must have been quietly collecting down there. My instinct is to take it rather than not take it unless it has completey resoved within a few days.
Hi Dawnsunny I had delay and ended up in hospital with pneumonia and pleurisy last month,so keep a close eye on its changes .I also have bronchiectasis ,worked in a school and am so aware if grandkids/hubby etc are germy.Julie
pS I hope that you had your flu jab and encourage anybody who may bring flu home to you to go and pay for one.
I had a throat op a week ago and so didn't walk as much or cough. I wondering if it could be that due to this I built up some mucus that needed clearing and now I have it feels better. Think I may wait and see how it goes.
That's a great idea, didn't think if that. Will get them to have it done.
So sorry to hear that littlepom, I really hope you get sorted soon.
I used to love Winter, now I'm dreading it x
Yes you could be right about the consequences of the op. That's the problem with bronch. It has a life of its own! Hope it has sorted itself for now.
We are all booked in, just need to check with my foster child's social worker as to if she can have one. She's 15. She would like one but need to check x
Good for you. I can tell that you are a very organised person. Two of my grandaughters get a free flu jab because one has a strange hormone condition and the other has just been diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. I don't know what government policy is on the general vaccination of school children. As we are learning that more and more conditions are the result of viral infection (diabetes for one) I do think that for the cost it could only benefit to vaccinate the whole community and create herd immunity as has been done for such as diptheria and polio.
I agree! Let's hope that happens before more damage is done x
Hello Dawnsunny .
Doctors tell us to avoid catching cold as much as possible for good reason. My doctor obsessively tells me to avoid people with cold, sanitize my hands, avoid crowds and make sure if my family have colds I don't get too close to them. According the the surgeon who may eventually conduct my lung transplant at the University of Tokyo, if I were to get an infection even just a simple cold , because of the weakened state of my lungs, it could quickly and irreversibly cause more damage. I know this is true. Three years ago I got a very bad infection. It took two whole months to feel normalish again and I know I deteriorated after that bout. So now, I don't take any chances. My family also understand how dangerous colds are for me, so they are also careful.
I think it takes everyone's effort. Take care of yourself.
Cas xx ๐น
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This a very difficult situation to deal with Dawn. I live with three other people and as the weeks go on, each of them will come down with a streaming, sneezing cold. My instinct is to run upstairs and lock my bedroom door or banish the offender to the garden shed, but this can be a bit difficult to pull off.
Give them the lecture about hand washing/anti bacterial gel and try not to touch things like door handles, light switches etc. Use a paper towel in your hand to turn on taps etc. Keep your distance as far as practicable and if anyone sneezes into the air, shoot them. If caught without a tissue, they should sneeze into their elbows. Germs only live on surfaces for a certain time, so we don't have to carry on theses extreme procedures indefinitely.
Sneezing spouses should definitely be despatched to the sofa or another room at night. And as often as you can, throw open the doors and windows to let some fresh air in.
Good luck
Love it BJ
Thanks LP ! This is the voice of experience
Getting them all to have flu jabs and I've actually ordered mouth masks!
I know this may sound a bit strange but don't share mugs/cups, keep a set of crockery and cutlery just for you sometimes we tend to rinse instead of giving thorough washes (when I started doing this I explained to hubby that I was protecting him from my bugs and not the other way around - so he did not get upset) and with our two grandchildren I have lots of antibac wipes for surfaces and we do top of head kissing a lot and have done so since they were born, they are having the flu jab this year, so hopefully that will cut down on the bug levels.
Sue
Good advice , do you do this all year round?
Yes and we have separate towels which I can wash separately with it being just the two of us at home having the separate washes is not to bad just a bit of a juggle when the weather is rainy.
How effective these measures are I'm not sure about but I have cut down my flare ups by a third.
Forgot I also wash the bathroom sink and hand taps with an antibac wash before I use it to wash my face whether I'm at home or away.
Sue
Yes that can be tricky, best is no snogging ๐no hugs and best if you can sleep separate. Works well with me and take extra vitamins ๐๐๐
Darn it! ๐..... what extra vitamins do you suggest ? x
Hello dawnsunny ๐ I started to take seven seas maximum strength, for immune system and eat 3 times in a week Manuka honey ๐๐ I eat them with fresh baked bread yum yum ๐ because I am a sweet tooth, extremely lol I believe it has helped me a lot to deal with colds, didn't get as many I had two years ago. Guess it has boosted my immune system a bit. Very happy about it! I could go in holiday and had no problems when I came back. I am not good in doing sport, so I go swimming twice a week when warm swimming is on. It helps a lot to boost your imunity.๐ผ๐๐ผ
I am a primary school teacher so canโt avoid colds etc. I also swear by First Defence. Iโm sad today as my very elderly mother had a bad cold and wonโt let me near her. I usually visit her at the weekend.
Aww sorry to hear that Ramy, it's sad we have to keep everyone at bay like this.
What's First Defence? ๐
Thank you.... I didnโt chose to keep my mum at bay.... she decided to keep me at bay because as old as I am sheโs still looking after me!!!!๐ First Defence is a nasal spray that deals with cold bugs as they start developing so it recommends you take it if you are in contact with anyone with a cold or think you are getting one. I have used it for years and it works (touch wood!) I have to take it a lot!!!
Well done mum! We never stop being a mum ๐.
I'll add this to my list to get too. I work in a school as does my husband and my children are in high school and uni, so it's going to used a lot! X
My husband has a chronic chest infection. Called GP for an appointment and couldnโt get one. He mentioned my lung disease and they saw him straight away!
Iโve now caught it! Prior to catching it I started a week of doxycycline ( antibiotics). I think by doing that itโs really helped me.
Phew! Went in to see the practice manager at my GP practice teary because one particular receptionist makes it so hard to see a dr when I'm ill. It's hard enough without her making you feel worse. She was so different when I went in with my sample yesterday. Sad I had to do it tho.
Glad your responding to doxycycline it didn't help with mine xx
Good idea seeing practice manager. I did that when I was first diagnosed (NSIP) as my GP was on holiday. I stood my ground when they handed me the phone in reception for me to talk to him. Itโs in public space!
He appeared with notebook and pen! With military precision I told him what he needed to do regarding tests, combinations... the lot!
It was sort-of funny as I did it like I was in a business meeting.... then at the end I fell apart completely. It worked though. X
Dawnsuny
It's very difficult, try one or other of you wearing a mask a bit like the Japanese &Chinese.
IKeith
I've given this advise before...lol...but I'm a big Purell gel and Purell wipe fan...everywhere I go, and often. I always use Listerine when I've been out. And, I was told if you keep your hands off your face, don't touch your eyes or lips your much less likely to get sick or catch viruses, etc.
Meg
Anyone who knows me doesnโt visit if they have an infection. I always phone before visiting anyone & if they have an infection then I postpone my visit. If my wife gets an infection then one of us sleeps in the spare room but suppose we are lucky to have one as our children are grown up & have left. Beyond that just try to keep a distance. It can be done. A person without respitory problems will shake off a cold in a week. Try your best.