Forgive me: I have spent the morning... - Lung Conditions C...

Lung Conditions Community Forum

55,609 members66,308 posts

Forgive me

jimmyr profile image
55 Replies

I have spent the morning asking for forgiveness and i made a critical error in judgement. I should not be in here trying to be funny cz i have made a mockery of this forum. Likr i stated..my mother was Scottish and ive been there...what a wonderful country steeped in tradition..some of the bravest ppl have been scots. And heres the onei like..Scotlands population is 13% redheads...please good people of the UK...i am apologizing from the bottom of my heart...never in a million years did i intentionally set out to offend anyone...thats not my nature.. this is sincere and i am beside myself for being so ridiculously degenerate in my way of not thinking on this matter...ive been lambasted and scolded for this and if you wish to keep on doing so ill just take it for it was me who did not think of the reaction when i placed my post up...i need this forum and i certainly dont want to lose the goodness of the UK...thank you for listening....jimmyr

Written by
jimmyr profile image
jimmyr
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
55 Replies

i have not read anything you have posted that i have found upsetting so what ever its is dont worry about it x

i have not read anything you have posted that i have found upsetting so what ever its is dont worry about it x

O2Trees profile image
O2Trees

Don't worry Jimmy - its not a big deal - you've acknowledged and apologised and people will accept that. Enjoy your day :)

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to O2Trees

Thnx that means alot

stone-UK profile image
stone-UK

Hi

I don't believe you set out to offend. Interpretation is a strange thing.

Politics is not always a good choice for a post.

Keep on posting, no body can do any more harm than you lung condition.

cofdrop-UK profile image
cofdrop-UK

Hi Jimmy

I really haven't seen anything you have written to be offensive at all, but if you feel this to be the case then your apology shows you are a truly big man who deserves respect. Don't beat yourself up hun. You need this forum and we need you. Stop worrying - texts are easily interpreted in a way we did not intend.

Love cx

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to cofdrop-UK

Thnx those words mean alot and u r such a sweet person to send me them...thnk u very very much

Louisiana profile image
Louisiana

I haven't seen anything offensive, but even if you did write something a bit "off" your apology is more than enough. don't worry so much....I think everyone on this site has days when they can't even think straight (or is it JUST me...hope not! :) ) You take care...and stop whipping yourself:) Main thing is that you should stay as well as you can :)

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to Louisiana

Hey Louisana...thnx it means alot to me and ur a good person to have sent them..i appreciate it alot..u take care also

DozyDormouse profile image
DozyDormouse

You can please some of the people some of the time but you can't please all the people all of the time. Stop getting in a fret tomorrow is another day.

Love

Dozy :) x x x

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to DozyDormouse

Thats for sure..thnxx a million it made me feel alot better...take care of yourself.

antan profile image
antan

You didn't offend me but having spent the last two weeks listening to the referendum every time I switch on t.v. I come on this site to get away from it and be with people suffering from problems similar to my own. I love humour, but what is happening in Scotland isn't funny, whichever side wins.

Hope your health improves Jimmy.

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to antan

Thnx antan..means alot to me..cz i do need this site badly

Suzy6 profile image
Suzy6

You are a big man to apologize jimmy. Not offended me. Takes a lot to offend me. If I don't like or disagree I ignore it. Don't run and hide stay on here. xx

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to Suzy6

Suzy im not going anywhere im going to take my lumps n keep on keepin on. This site is way too imoo

important to me thnx hun

Hey JimmyR Scot or no Scot don't get down in the dumps sweating over a few blunders we a all make blunders but being you is what makes you and the memories you leave on this site. So buck up and don't get so down about things

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to

Ok ive already stuck my head between my legs cant get any worse ill be cool as a cucumber...watch n thnx means too much for i do need u ppl in here very much so

in reply to jimmyr

well for goodness sake don't break wind if you head is between your legs

peege profile image
peege

We all make dumb comments from time to time especially when we're feeling crap.. Takes a big person to apologise. Then there's a culture thing, different senses of humour....

It's a monumental, very sensitive subject and quite emotional. I've no Scotish blood - although there is 'ginge' in the family so perhaps there is some. I for one feel sick about it. Tomorrow we'll know if the UK is no more.

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to peege

Your right..ill move on cz the site is fantastic n i need u guys.thnx a million

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to peege

Hey peeg well i guess the UK goes marching on. Halaluluh ! I wanna thnk u for being a charm n tryin to make me feel better...well guess what ? You've succeeded in your quest and and u have your UK intact..take care ill ck back later, enjoy your friday..ok

casper99 profile image
casper99

Hi Jimmy, I haven't read whatever your apologising for and I'm not bothered about trying too. But, i doubt it's something you need to feel so guilty over.

You've been going through a hell of a lot of stress lately and I know myself how that can affect people's emotions. When i'm stressed, I come out with some right carp. haha.

I doubt anyone wants to see you get upset over something so trivial.

So, forget about what you said, you haven't killed anyone, lol. Catchya later. xx

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to casper99

I havent ? Couldve fooled me haha hey ill put the lime in the coconut n call ya in the mornin..thnx there buddy

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to casper99

I havent ? Couldve fooled me haha hey ill put the lime in the coconut n call ya in the mornin..thnx there buddy

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to casper99

I havent ? Couldve fooled me haha hey ill put the lime in the coconut n call ya in the mornin..thnx there buddy

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to casper99

I havent ? Couldve fooled me haha hey ill put the lime in the coconut n call ya in the mornin..thnx there buddy

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to casper99

I havent ? Couldve fooled me haha hey ill put the lime in the coconut n call ya in the mornin..thnx there buddy

Just been catching up with the posts. Oh dear jimmy you are in the doghouse aren't you? I wasn't offended by it but I can see the Scots might be. Don't worry about it these things happen. What is it they say? stay away from politics, religion and sex... these cause more arguments than anything else. Please don't stop posting your funnies Jimmy xx

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to

I wont cz im still gonna be like "u c funny ? Heard u was in california makin em laugh .....go ahead make me laugh ? Oh i see u here to pk up my daughter...what r u n my daughter goin to go see....we gonna go see Caligula ? But how much do that tv weigh ? Ohh this must be the queen b...now i kno where ur daughter get her big rump from....im tryin to be nice...that so r t of thing ok ill keep em comin..take care ok

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to

I wont cz im still gonna be like "u c funny ? Heard u was in california makin em laugh .....go ahead make me laugh ? Oh i see u here to pk up my daughter...what r u n my daughter goin to go see....we gonna go see Caligula ? But how much do that tv weigh ? Ohh this must be the queen b...now i kno where ur daughter get her big rump from....im tryin to be nice...that so r t of thing ok ill keep em comin..take care ok

victoriablue profile image
victoriablue

Not read anything Jimmy but your health is more important than any government. Have a good day x

juney_99_antique profile image
juney_99_antique

Jimmyr, you have apologised so many times already, you do not have to do it again. It won't matter how much you apologise, there are still people who will not let matters rest - I have found this out myself! This site is not just for people with lung disease but for people with lung disease and thoughts about other notions they might have! We are not just "people with lung disease" we are people! Have a good day regardless of anything else!

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to juney_99_antique

Thnx n im finding this out now ? Well geez why didnt u tell me before the post.........haha

juney_99_antique profile image
juney_99_antique in reply to jimmyr

Wish I had told you, Jimmy!!! We all learn as we go along! Anyhow, it is a 'no' vote so us English can now think about splitting from the Scots!!!!! Joke, joke, joke!!!!

Offcut profile image
Offcut

You can please some of the people some of the time but you can not please all of the people all of the time! Which I converted from a famous often misquoted.

"You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time." - Abraham Lincoln

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to Offcut

U cant fool me cz im already a fool....and everybody plays the fool sometimes it may be practical it may be cruel.. falling in love is the easiest thing to do...but theres no guarantees that the one u love is gonna love u...right ?

Offcut profile image
Offcut in reply to jimmyr

so right unless it is a dog I have found :)

Lolly2 profile image
Lolly2

Thank you for your apology Jimmy. I am in a much better frame of mind today as the vote was 'No.'

I was a bit offended by your post, but your apology more than made up for it. Now you will find that we Scots are very forgiving, and I accept that you did not mean to be offensive.

Thank you again.

Lolly.

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to Lolly2

Lolly thnk u for that n i am happy that you happy about the vote

cornishlady profile image
cornishlady

Don't beat yourself up Jimmy, I didn't think you meant to offend anyone, don't worry anymore , and keep posting ! Take care xx

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to cornishlady

I at times intend to be eccentric and i wear it not so well at times.......but thnx hun im gonna be me - minus the drama...ok ck back later. Have a nice fri.

FarmerD profile image
FarmerD

Relax Jimmy,no harm done.Take care!D.

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to FarmerD

Relax did u say relax ? There isnt a bone in my body thatat

that relaxes..sort of like relax dont do it.ahh haa see im relaxed...u do see that, right ? But of course.....take care n thnx

mustcarryon profile image
mustcarryon

I haven't read anything offensive jimmy. I'm not Scottish but I am a red head.

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to mustcarryon

Well im irish and redhead...hmm duel ? Ok ok touche !

hope you have forgiven yourself babe....we need each other on here

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to

Mandy i need this forum cz i love this place.....do not want to be known as a troubled person for which i am not

in reply to jimmyr

i dont think anyone sees you as one babe so dont beat yourself up the hu family stick together x x x

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to

Ok sounds good to me..i have to ck..u kno its a international security thing...i could be breaching nato haha...thnx mandy ur such a sweetheart !

lulu5555 profile image
lulu5555

Hi Jimmy I am Scottish and live in Scotland I read your letter and as we would say NAE Problem pal all forgotton and certainly forgiven Take Care X.

jimmyr profile image
jimmyr in reply to lulu5555

See i knew u guys were alright...i was just testing ya..a is for awesome...love this place...what time is tea time ..u kno us americans ....

elja profile image
elja in reply to jimmyr

Please stop worrying!!! I was born in Scotland, still live there and have spent nearly all my life in Edinburgh. I thought your original post was a bit ill-judged ie a bit insulting - but harmless. (Some people have posted openly racist stuff on here and your post was NOTHING like that.) And I'm not one of those people who believes they have a right never to be insulted! In any case, you've apologised (many times!) and I think it's clear that your apologies have been accepted.

dusty2 profile image
dusty2

Hi Jimmy, I am also Scottish & live in Scotland. I took no offence to your post at all & having read some of your posts since I joined here I knew you did not mean to insult anybody.

Puffthemagicdragon profile image
Puffthemagicdragon

I haven't read anything offensive. Anyway, life's too short to worry to much. :)

huggs profile image
huggs

Hi Jimmy,

I don't know whether you will get this or not, as you posted what you did and your apology a month ago. I have just been having a wander around older posts and found this. From all the replies you got I hope you have forgotten all about it, and have just carried on as usual. We all make blunders, or things come out in the wrong way, but you apologised for any offence you caused. I am Scottish and did not take offence at your opinion, and I am relieved that we are still a united country, just like we are a united family on HU. There are a lot more important things to worry about than what you said, so as I said, I hope you have forgiven yourself, and have stopped beating yourself up over it. Chill, my friend, chill.

hugs from Huggs xxx

You may also like...

The dreaded bug got me

This is me

It's Me

Weird thing ever happened to me

Please just let me express myself back to low mood

Yesterday breathless mucus made me realise..I can't win this..Dec after being hospitalised I fought...