Could do with a shoulder to cry on

[pamela67]

Had my spirometry test on Friday still unsure what's the results mean then over the worms had a phone to be told a good friend of mine as got cancer debated doesn't come close

[scrobbitty]

Oh bless x Always hard when a friend gets some bad news - the best thing is for you to be her shoulder to cry on and in the meantime make sure you keep as well as possible and see your G.P for him/her to explain all those test results to you. Chin up, you're never on your own on here xx

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Can only agree with scrobbity, especially about looking after yourself and getting doc to explain results. There is always someone here to listen. x

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All the best, Pamela, it is always tough to hear a friend has a illness like cancer, I am sure that there are plenty of different treatments for her,and you will be able to help her. Should I take this moment to ask about the smoking. All this could be a test for you.

[pamela67]

Thankyou scrobbity and alwaysmiling going to ring my gps up in the morning to get done answers as for my friend and cancer iam heartbroken for her it's second stage cancer I don't even no what that,means xx

[scrobbitty in reply to pamela67]

Me neither, but I am sure you will surprise yourself and find the strength to support her no matter what. xx

[pamela67]

Thankyou Anniseed it means alot having people to talk to as for the smoking no I will never light a ciggy again and yes it's testing me but it can test away xx

[pamela67]

I will do scrobbitty thankyou xxx

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Hope tomorrow is a better day for you. Well done for kicking the ciggies in to touch. If you can manage without after hearing such bad news re your friend, you wont be needing them. Joyce xxx

[Lynne1955]

I am so sorry that its been a bad day. Be proud though, that you are not only such a wonderful friend to your friend, but you are still helping yourself by not smoking at the moment. No mean feat!

Lynne xx

[copdber]

O my, you are having a very hard time. It's awful when someone close to you has a life threatening illnesses. All you can do is offer to be there for them and don't forget were hear for you if you need support yourself. Very well done on staying off the cigs it can be very tempting to give in when your under pressure so as Lynne said be very proud of your self.

[pamela67]

Thankyou Joyce I I hope tomorrow,is,a better day,to and as,for,the,cigs I will never go there again xx

[KingoftheCocktails]

A friend in need!

Richard

[pamela67]

Thankyou lynne I don't feel such a good friend at the moment just can't get my head,around it xx

[pamela67]

Thankyou copdber that means a lot knowing that I have got good people on here to talk to regarding the,cigs it's been 2 wks today it as,been tempting but would rather a life instead of the nasty white sticks xx

[pamela67]

Thankyou Richard xx

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I am so sorry for you - what miserable news. Wish I could think of something to write that was clever and witty - not my forte! Take good care of yourself. Tad x x

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Sorry for your sad news Pamela, hoping your friends cancer is treatable and she will respond well to the treatment.

Sending thoughts your way.

BC x

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Sorry to hear of your friends bad news,but I'm. Sure you will be there for her.

Congrats for staying off the smokes,awesome effort when being under stress,wishing you & friend,all the best,

Hugs,Wendells xxx

[pamela67]

Thankyou tad what a lovely msg xx

[pamela67]

Blakeybc thankyou for your msg keepring everything crossed tat my friend responds to treatment xx

[pamela67]

Thankyou for your lovely msg wendells I will be there for my friend hundred per cent as for the ciggy there gone they have ruled my life long thankyou again for your kind msg xxx

[ginachron]

Don't lose heart about your friend. I have two friends who have both gone through treatment and come out ok. One has had bowel cancer and the other breast cancer and they are doing fine, so don't give up. Hope that things improve for you.

Gina x

[pamela67]

Hi gina my friend also as got bowel cancer but it's spread quite abit because of her silly gp wouldn't listen to her when she kept going back and seeing him he told her is words not mine that she needs to see a shrink months later she was rushed into hospital and well you no the rest xxx