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So upset at seeing my poor little man suffer and can't stop crying......

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Hello all....I am afraid this is going to be a really wingey post.

I can't talk to my husband and tonight I'm really struggling. I picked Max up from he childminders and he was superb....he was lively, smiley, ate loads and bang..went to bed and the coughing started. He has had all his meds today, so I used he blue inhaler tosee if this would reduce the coughing...I just knew he was going to eventually be sick. Meanwhile, whilst my poor little man is hacking away my husband turned to me when I was getting upset and said I don't know why you are getting so upset and het up....he was like it this time last year and you know he'll get better when hte weather gets a bit warmer. I just cannot belive that my husband, the father of my child, said that. I really want to call him all he names under the son, and I know I shouldn't say it, but I really felt like slapping him. Max was then sick and so upset as usual and huband was his typical crappy self.

I know I am moaning and I feel like I'm being so selfish, but I'm sitting here feeling really sorry for myself...I really need some support and can't even rely on my husband to be there. I cried so hard ealier that my whole body aches and I have a massive headache (not stopping me from having a glass of wine though...I really need it!) My husband is really rubbish at dealing with anything to be honest, but I just wish Icould rely on him to support Max and I.

On a positive note, Max has an appt with the specialiston 2nd March and it can't come soon enough.

So sorry to moan....but the onyl peopl that truely understand are you guys and this website has been so fantastic.

Oh....I am keeping a diary now and it seem's that Max is worse when it is cold and damp....does anyone elsefind this with their little one?

Thanks in advance for all your support xxxx

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Oooops....don't know what happened there....seems to have posted 3 times....sorry....it's either the wine or that fact that I am useless with computers!!!!!

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