Emergency

[Bluelady-sing]

Help guys I have had a demi accident, the guy has no told me has changed his mind about us. I am on 75mgs of quietiapine. I am 41 I have PCOS what should I do? should I take the morning after pill. I can not deal with services that alone creates stress. This might be my only chance to have a baby. Help

[Hannah_at_APP Administrator]

Hi Pumpkins, thanks for your post. Is there anyone you can talk to about your decision, a trusted friend or family member? I know you are cautious of talking to professionals but perhaps there is a friendly GP or someone at a local pharmacy who can advise you? I also found this link which might give you some more information about your options:

sexwise.fpa.org.uk/unplanne...

I'm sorry that I don't have any personal experience to share on this, but wishing you all the best, take care, xx

[Bluelady-sing in reply to Hannah_at_APP]

I have pcos I am 41 I discussed my dilemma with the OH he knows. I already mentioned to my GP a plan if I became pregnant they gave me iron and vits. Checked my folate levels. I am going to find a new job so can get a financial stability. I am trying to positive an well. I will work with the professionals to make sure me and my baby are safe. My mum has had MH problems when I was a baby. So I know what I am in for, but I want my baby. In fact this is probably a sign that I should start a family

[Jocelyn_at_APP Partner APP]

Hi Pumpkins,

Just to echo Hannah really,do you have a close friend you can talk to about this? Is there anyone with a medical background you do feel comfortable talking to or asking for advice. I know it's difficult dealing with services but hopefully they can give you some insight to help you come to the right decision for you.

Thinking of you. Xx

[Bluelady-sing in reply to Jocelyn_at_APP]

I am worried about everything. I think it is part of my problems

[Jocelyn_at_APP Partner APP in reply to Bluelady-sing]

I can understand that. I'm a big worrier too. I try to focus on the present and see what I can do to deal with the immediate issues. I think sometimes we fill our heads with so many 'what ifs' it gets too overwhelming and we end up confusing ourselves.

Do you have anyone else you can share your worries with besides us on the forum?

Xx

[Bluelady-sing]

your right. At the time it was a mutual decision, but now I do not know what he wants

[Jocelyn_at_APP Partner APP in reply to Bluelady-sing]

I'm sorry that things have changed for you and things are uncertain at the moment.

Did you have a look at the website Hannah suggested? I had a quick nosey and it's got some useful questions that may help you explore how you feel about things, that may help you make some decisions.

Try to think about what is best for you and take care of yourself. It's easy to forget about yourself and your needs.

We are here for you.

[Lilybeth Volunteer]

Hello Pumpkins

I'm sorry that you feel let down. I think you need to think about yourself and take good care. Perhaps if you don't have a close friend to share this with, the Samaritans are always there to talk, even if you are not in crisis on 116 123 for whatever you're going through.

Thanks for sharing with us .... try to talk to someone.