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What are you grateful for?

friends family pets all animals all of nature

rare moments of peace

mindfulness prayer meditation

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Agora1

Starrlight, each day I am thankful for finally seeing the light.

Not the eternal light but in finally finding peace in my heart

and mind. How grateful I am to have Anxiety behind me. :) xx

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Starrlight in reply to Agora1

I thought I was there then the anxiety came back and it’s making me so sad and in pain

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Agora1 in reply to Starrlight

Hi dear, Anxiety will always test us especially when we are at a low point

in our lives. Know that your inner strength, perseverance and the power of

your mind are always ready to take on what this entity gives. Do not allow

anxiety to take over your thoughts. Stop the thought before it escalates.

This is the only way to win. Review Affirmative Meditation on YouTube to

give you that boost you need. The symptoms may start to appear but breathe

through them, turn the switch off in your subconscious mind and let your healing

begin as many times as it takes. Anxiety will back off. You are in control :) xx

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Starrlight in reply to Agora1

thank you beautiful Agora

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Agora1 in reply to Starrlight

Dearest Starrlight, hang on through the bumps in the road,

you will still get there maybe a little worn but Grateful :) xx

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Starrlight in reply to Agora1

thanks that means a lot and gives me hope

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Marysblue in reply to Starrlight

Hope it eases soon.

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EndUser13 in reply to Starrlight

Starrlight I have had a lot of ups and downs but along the way I gained experience and understanding for how things works. I may have bad days in the future, but I will still be better equipped for the successes I've had. I hope your difficult time passes soon, perhaps helped by your past experiences

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Willow2022

I am thankful for my family, my super cute dog, the rainy weather today and moments of peace and calm I find when meditating

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Starrlight in reply to Willow2022

sounds perfect

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LifeIsThePitts

My husband and dogs...& TMS. It is the main mental health treatment option that allows me to function as close to normal as possible. It's the only treatment that has ever provided me with remission from depression and anxiety. I do maintainence appointments every 4 weeks...but it's well worth it to keep my symptoms in check. STILL working out the kinks in my protocol after 15 months, but I feel that will be a work in progress from month to month for me.

Also grateful for medical marijuana and Psilocybin 🍄. Psychedelic meds are my friends. But they're not for everyone. Biological wiring is key to positive or detrimental outcomes. You don't know which you're going to be until you experiment. It's up to everyone to decide what they're comfortable trying for themselves, though.

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Starrlight in reply to LifeIsThePitts

What is TMS ? I’m trying out help oil with cbd and cbg and I’m finding improvements at first possibly now the effect is wearing off I have to have more

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Starrlight

Transcranial magnetic Stimulation...I'll get back to you soon

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Starrlight

I posted about my experience with TMS and Ketamine infusions for treatment resistant depression and anxiety last November. If you scroll back through my posts you'll find This one that describes what TMS is.

bespoketreatment.com/the-re...

I included a Link to the clinic I go to that has a TON of information about the kinds of TMS and what It does.

Post from Nov '22
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Starrlight in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Thanks!!!

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Starrlight

Let me know if you have any questions. This treatment has saved my life in every way imaginable. I would not be here without it, I was done with living.

It's been 17 months of treatment and it's the only thing that's ever helped me stay stable for any length of time.

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Starrlight in reply to LifeIsThePitts

happy for you!

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Marysblue

What I wrote in my gratitude Journal this morning. Yesterdays rain and cool down, visit to Wildlife Refuge, new series to watch, no pressure day, HU, HU friends message to me, my brother emailed me.

Also I would say I'm grateful for my health today.

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Starrlight in reply to Marysblue

good one, me too I was able to walk today im grateful

what series are you watching?

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Marysblue in reply to Starrlight

Based on a true story, the new Kaley Cuoco series on peacock..... I just finished Your honor last week, that was great.I'm running out of shows to watch. If you have any suggestions let me know. I've seen about everything.

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Marysblue

Mayfair witches, the Anne Rice tv show was fun.

Anything Yellowstone, 1883, 1923...if u love strong women and 🤠 cowboys 🐄🐮

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Marysblue in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Not seen those..thank you

Hi Starrlight, I'm grateful for my family and definitely my cat. She helps so much, I swear she knows when I'm struggling. I don't feel like I should be grateful for my health bc I don't feel healthy. Anyway, 🫂 hugs

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EndUser13 in reply to

You gotta love animal companions, they can be so in tune with us. It seems like every single time I have issues with anxiety my little guy is right there trying to comfort me

in reply to EndUser13

Right! I admire them 😍

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to EndUser13

I don't know what I'd have done without my dogs in the last 7 years. They're the reason I get up every morning...and hubby, too 🐶🐕🐶👫

in reply to LifeIsThePitts

It's almost unbelievable how amazing they are right? Like today, i felt like shit and was isolating in bed and Gia made me get up, pet her, and feed her. It was great. My baby definitely gives me purpose. Thank you for sharing this 🙏 😺

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to

They absolutely know what we need... sometimes better than we do.🐶

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Starrlight in reply to

HiSwilly! Awww I’m thinking of getting a cat. What causes you to feel unhealthy? Maybe you can come up with a goal that will come to have you feel healthier?

in reply to Starrlight

Idk I just don't feel good today, lots of anxiety that causes it. I get stuck in my head. Thank you Starrlight 🫂

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Starrlight in reply to

I hear you I totally get that. We will heal and be ok I think. I am so stuck in my head lately too. ((((((((((((Swilly)))))))))))))

in reply to Starrlight

Thank you, let's hope 🙏 🤞🫂

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to

🫂 HUGS and blessings to you 💞🤗 hope you feel better tomorrow 🙏

in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Thank you LifeIsThePitts ! There is always fresh hope with a fresh day. ✨️

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to

Absolutely! The present is the Best 🎁 present we can hope for. Be strong and resilient. We're always here for you 💕

in reply to LifeIsThePitts

So true, i need to add that one to my affirmations! Thank you so much. I truly appreciate the support 🙏 💛

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to

Have a blessed evening! Sweet dreams 💤😴

in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Just now saw this, hope you slept good 😴. I got up way too early, I'm dragging ass. 😫

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😉🍄❣️

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EarthSitter1

Right this moment I am grateful for the rain it has been so hot today and I don’t cope well in the heat ⛈️

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Starrlight in reply to EarthSitter1

nice it feels like it will rain here soon

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Mrspjsmom

I'm grateful for a quiet house and that my husband went to the ER when his foot got badly infected. He is diabetic and I know he is in the right place.

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Starrlight in reply to Mrspjsmom

good one a quiet house sounds nice. I don’t know what that’s like. I’m glad your husband is getting taken care of.

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MaggieSylvie in reply to Mrspjsmom

My diabetic partner has been through foot infections when they had to give him antibiotics through his heart so that it would pump them all around his body. He had both great toes taken off at different times but since then, no problems at all. The problem now is blood sugar going very high and suddenly very low. Since November there have been three hospitalisations, the latest being just under a week and now he is treating me very badly. He resents my "addiction" to my computer. I now have a smarter smart phone, so that's another issue. I am getting less and less time to myself now but at least he has his prescriptions that should last a while, as well as food that he said he wanted - well that was then .... today he wants something else. Quiet moments are priceless.

Chocolate ice cream cones! (Wish it was frozen yogurt.)

A day of help clearing clutter and cleaning up.

Half a night of sleep is better than none. 😊

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

chocolate! My fav! :) oh wow you are so positive on the half sleep is better than none so true!!!!!!! Niiiiice

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

Yep! More sleep for both of us tonight I hope.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

I got to sleep super late but slept well How about you?

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

I collapsed in bed very early, and woke around 4:40 a.m. with the house full of smoke and a grey fog. Husband had turned on the fan before he left so I'd be comfortable. So now I've got a sore throat and headache. He meant well, but I hope he doesn't do it again. He doesn't remember things much better than I do.

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Nothing_but_books

Hagen daas butter pecan ice cream 🍦 is my All Time favorite 🤤

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EndUser13

I am grateful for the immense amount of success I've been having in fighting panic disorder and working through the trauma that caused it.

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Starrlight in reply to EndUser13

good job! Keep it up!

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to EndUser13

You continue to inspire me with your progress and insights. Thanks for being here for me, as always 🍄🐾🌈 trauma healing is a hard fought battle. Progress can come in spurts and then nothing for an undisclosed amount of time. It's awesome to hear those that are on the positive side of the ledger 📒 cuz it's never too long before we're faced with the same ol song and dance 🩰

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EndUser13 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Thank you! I really appreciate your kindness, it means a lot to me 😍

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to EndUser13

Shrooms 🍄 for ALL

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Starrlight

Lexa I’m so sorry to hear it. We are here to listen. Do you feel like talking more about it?

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LifeIsThePitts

I don't know how I'd have survived the last 7 years without my dogs 🐶🐕🐶... they are my babies and my reason for getting up in the morning

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Shnookie

I’m grateful for having Avery good night of sleep without any dreams last week

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plaganon5

I'm grateful for my dog, he gets me out of the house daily.

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to plaganon5

Me too! It's my favorite time of the day 😁

Dog walk
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LifeIsThePitts

I call it s.a.d. season...mine is mid Dec to end of March. I can HIBERNATE 🐻 like a Bear all winter ❄️🌨️☃️

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OtOFrance

Hello Starrlight , I hope you are fine,

I am grateful, even if I am not always good at saying it, for waking up every morning, having a job, being quite healthy, not having lost my mum, owning a boat, being able to speak several languages, being able to walk barefeet in the grass, being able to talk to people like you on this forum, hearing birds while they whistle, being loved by my wife, lobing my wife ...

Well, plenty of "meaningless" things for the most I think, but so important to me !

Talk soon,

Love from France

O

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Starrlight in reply to OtOFrance

defidently meaningful and beautiful thanks for sharing what you are grateful for

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OtOFrance in reply to Starrlight

I am in no way different to anyone else, and I do complain very often, would say my wife. But I try to keep those small gratefulness signs in mind.

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AnxiousSilver

This community. :)

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Starrlight in reply to AnxiousSilver

☺️

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Teaching

I am grateful for life and my loved ones.

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primrose81

I am grateful for my family here and in Ireland and New Zealand and Canada. I am especially grateful for and to my brother Peter who has been given only 2-4 weeks to live xxx

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Starrlight in reply to primrose81

oh no I’m soooooo sorry to hear about your brother. Saying a prayer for him and you and your family right now. (((((((((((Hug)))))))))))

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primrose81 in reply to Starrlight

Thank you Starr xx

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Starrlight in reply to primrose81

love to you sweet one ❤️

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Hisue

I am grateful for my belief in God & the Pharmacist (not the bad rheums) who intervened & saved my life.

My whole family abandoned & turned against me when I became ill with severe sudden onset RA. Their goal being to get rid of me so as not to interrupt their wonderful lives….

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Starrlight in reply to Hisue

I’m so sorry about your family wow that’s rough. I know how believing in God is helpful for some it’s helpful to me too. How are you feeling living with RA? What is RA? Rheumatoid Arthritis?

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Hisue in reply to Starrlight

Yes, RA is rheumatoid arthritis - the body attacks itself/all organs & deforms the joints, very painful. I am in the USA - where there are a lot of bad drs (who are strictly in their profession for the money). Thanks for your kind reply.

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Starrlight in reply to Hisue

((((((((((((((((((huge hug)))))))))))))))))

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Woolybluecurl

Hi Starrlight.....thanks for leading the pack in focusing on what we're grateful for. Sometimes it's hard to find those things when anxiety/depression seems to rule our lives. I am grateful for my husband, who stands by me through all the ups and downs, for my home, for having enough food to eat and a clean bed to sleep in every night. I also found an app that's been helping me relax and sleep better....it's called "Declutter Your Mind," and it is full of guided meditations. I think each of us has to find the things that work for us.....like creating a recipe of different ingredients. I've had a lot of trial and error along the way, and though I'm doing better, I know I'll keep searching for the things that can make my recipe the best. I'm back riding my bike a few miles every other day (can't go every day because of hip issues), but there's something about it that makes me feel strong. I've always thought if my body feels strong, it makes the rest of me feel stronger, too. I read a good quote yesterday by Confucius....."It does not matter how slowly you go, so long as you do not stop." Blessings to you.....

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Starrlight in reply to Woolybluecurl

I love that quote. I love how biking makes you feel strong. Thanks for the tip on Decluttee Your Mind. Thank you Blessings to you too 🙏 😊

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momander

I'm just grateful for being alive after 3 years of heart problems and a double cabg. X

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Starrlight in reply to momander

It really puts things in perspective. I’m so happy you are ok. (((((((((Hug)))))))))

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momander in reply to Starrlight

It's a long recovery but I'm getting there day by day.😄

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Starrlight in reply to momander

You’re awesome!

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designguy

I'm grateful to wake up in the morning to another beautiful day and know that i get to choose what I do with it. I'm also grateful for all the emotional and physical healing I have done and being able to enjoy being present more and enjoy life it's self and peace of mind. I'm also grateful for my family and friends and the time I get to share with them. Yes, life is good.

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Starrlight in reply to designguy

I’m so happy for you. You sound great!

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designguy in reply to Starrlight

I am, thanks!

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MaggieSylvie

I am grateful that my laptop is now working again. I am grateful for the moment of peace and quiet that the "disabled" loo in Sainsbury's Starbucks gave me. I am grateful for the smile and helpfulness of the girl behind the counter.

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Starrlight in reply to MaggieSylvie

I’m also grateful for my device. And kind people.

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MaggieSylvie in reply to Starrlight

And I am glad for these sunny days and for pine nut butter that turned my corn cakes into something else with tomato and cucumber (pepper & salt). I am glad that I am getting stronger, that my blood test looks ok and that I am not dying just yet.

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Starrlight in reply to MaggieSylvie

yum! I’m hungry now

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MaggieSylvie

You have to feel it until you can learn not to. Things will change if you keep your spirits up.

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MaggieSylvie

Whatever it is, do it differently!

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