Dating

[hayleyanne96]

Hey I'm 17

I find my condition being the reason why I try and avoid being a relationship with anyone. I'm scared of what they may think,

Any tips on how to get over this

[PeppermintPattyUK]

Hi HayleyAnne,

Being an alopecian does require an amount of strength and courage, meeting new people can be hard for anyone but when you know that people judge on appearances it is even more difficult.

But remember that most people are kind and friendly generally.

Finding friends via a hobby has helped me.

And being happy with my appearance has helped, I wear a wig, other alopecians don't, some people with sufficient hair wear extensions, toppers etc. Just make sure you are comfortable with whatever you choose to do.

Then decide whether you want to discuss with friends your alopecia or not. Again I choose not to, my alopecia, my choice. People will learn to respect your boundaries if you are comfortable letting them know what is and isn't up for discussion.

There is no 'right' way to handle alopecia, just the way that is right for you.

Have you thought about going to one of the support groups that AlopeciaUK have if there is one nearby?

Take the very best care of yourself.

PeppermintPattyUK

[auk_moderator1]

Hi HayleyAnne, I agree with PeppermintPattyUK. It can be really difficult meeting new people but that shouldn't stop you from doing so. When I was dating I was knocked back on several occasions when I mentioned my alopecia but I realised that these people weren't worth knowing if they had that kind of attitude. The right person will understand your condition and will be there for you no matter what.

People with alopecia do find Mr/Mrs right. Early in Alopecia Uk's days we had a marriage of two alopecians who'd met through our site.

[rachelsjulia]

That sounds really hard meeting new people or dating with someone. But I'm sure there is still people who can still accept you at your condition. I heard about NIOXIN and RELOXE they are best in hair regrowth supplements. Why not try it?