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He's Been !!!!

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The mince pie and sherry have gone from the hearth so it's a good bet Santa doesn't have AF but for the rest of you don't be silly. Please take it easy with the food and drink over the next few days as I really don't want to be reading about visits to A and E!.

Sorry here in UK we don't have a white Christmas but lets be real, it is a rarity. Even the big snow of '62 didn't start till lunch time on Boxing Day! The mist in our valley is obscuring the farm opposite and the air is so still I doubt it will lift anytime soon but we have our family here and are safe so all is well.

I wish you happiness and peace.

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EileenMary profile image
EileenMary

Thank you. All the best to you and your family too. X

DrBook profile image
DrBook

Thank you! Christmas blessings to you and yours.

Brian

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Cavalierrubie

Thank you. Peace and love to you, and to all the wonderful, kind friends on this forum, Thank you for all the invaluable support in times of need. God bless everyone. ❤️

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BenHall1

G'day Bob,

Merry Christmas to you and your family ......... and the much wider AF ( and now for me at least ... my wider asthma ) family.

I remember the winter of 1962, as you describe. I was a young 17 & half year old and was employed by a local haulage contractor. Coal shortages down in Surrey where I lived. Our company had to send tipper trucks up north and I went along for the ride on one occasion to keep the driver company too, up to Creswell Colliery ( I think in Nottinghamshire some where ). Had a pretty good trip until coming back down the A1, somewhere in the countryside north of Letchworth and we copped an inside rear wheel blow out. Snow every damn where and of course we had to wait for rescue. Man, I tell you, I learned all about cold that night. There was a wrecked cottage in a field nearby so driver and I went through the hedge, got heaps of wood back to the truck and got a good blaze going ............. it took a fair while. We dipped a rag into the truck diesel tank and eventually got a fire going, slow process as diesel ignites much slower than petrol !

As far as food and booze is concerned ... this is the driest Christmas in my living memory. Any wonder why I gravitate to one of the Sydney Webcams for live views of Bondi Beach where I spent my first Aussie Christmas in December 1967, alone and aged 23.

May the Force be with you.

John

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MadBunny

Happy Christmas to you and your family. Have a wonderful time together 🤗🎄🎅

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Bagrat

Wise words as ever Bob, thank you. Enjoy Christmas in your corner of the Universe and hope many more in this group will do the same.Let's stick to concerning ourselves with things within our grasp and not let the world's affairs swamp us. Sufficient unto the day........

All good wishes for 25.

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CDreamer in reply toBagrat

Wise words

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Fran22

Thank you, Bob. Wishing you and yours a happy and peaceful Christmas. You’re a reassuring presence on this website, so please look after yourself too!

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Jay10

Thank you, enjoy your Christmas 🎄🎄🎄

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meadfoot

Wishing you all the very best Bob Happy Christmas. 🎄🎅🏻

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Ochg

Thank you Bob,

Wishing you and your family a very happy Christmas 🎄 and a peaceful New Year

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Rainfern

Happy Christmas Bob and to your family, and happy Christmas to everyone here - it’s got to be a very special forum to check in on Christmas Day! Have a good year ahead, health and happiness 🎄💚⭐️🎄💚⭐️

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OzJames

and also wish peace and happiness to you and your family and many thanks for your sound advice and steady hand in the couple of years I’ve been on this great forum

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Peony4575

And to you Bob

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Hammerboy

All the best to you and yours for Christmas and the new year 👍

At first glance, I thought that your post was titled " He's been ill", which concerned me.... I'm glad that's not the case, Bob. Thanks for all the sensible advice, based on experience, that you tirelessly share almost daily. This forum is a valuable resource for all afibbers.

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BabsJ

Thank you Bob. Have a lovely time with your family

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Singwell

Morning Bob- you sent the fog up to Wales I think! No Boxing Day walk for us here this morning. Warning heeded! I can't tolerate alcohol at all these days. 98% of the time I'm fine with that but I have to admit that I do miss my sneaky pre Xmas lunch quaff when prepping in the kitchen.

Hope you had a lovely day with you and yours.

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Ppiman

All the best for 2025, Bob. The Year of the Trump!! ;-)

Steve

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Crystamycin

Thanks Bob and a Merry Christmas to you and all of the AF Team with Tracey, plus to all our members of the Forum, yes let’s be pampered this Christmas 🪅.

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GoodHearty

Hope you all have had a good day celebrating and that extra belt notches have not been needed.

Loved the stories of the 62 snow. Wasn’t even born.

Best Wishes

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BobDVolunteer in reply toGoodHearty

Started snowing at luchtime on Boxing Day and still on the ground at Easter. Our local park eventually drove a land rover around on theice on the lake, put up flood lights and opened the park ar night for skating. Lost a lot of the ducks since foxes could walk to the islands where they roosted. I remember taking a shovel down to church to dig the path out the first Sunday and with help from some other members of Boys Brigade we got the boiler working to take the chill off the church. Got into trouble over that as we used about a months supply of coke in one day! Lol😂

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Cavalierrubie in reply toBobD

I was 14 years old when we had that snow. We had a hedge around the house with a gate for exit. When we opened the gate the snow was up to the top of the hedge. In those days no one was without a shovel. We had icicles hanging from the house about a foot long at times. We were used to such winters and just got on with it. It amazes me now, when we get the rare inch of snow, how everything stops and is a big catastrophe,

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Ossie7 in reply toGoodHearty

Nor me , I was born 3 years later in 65 , what about you ? X

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GoodHearty in reply toOssie7

‘63 I was born. In Uganda where we never had snow. Now in UK, and snow days are rare near London but does cause chaos when it does.

Best Wishes

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PhyllisK

Very best wishes to you and your family Bob. It’s nice to see you in print and lovely to see that you have not lost that amazing talent for saying “how it is”. I salute you my friend.

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Fastbeat in reply toPhyllisK

Thank you,hope your day was all you hoped it would be.

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Fastbeat in reply toFastbeat

Above was meant for Bob

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PhyllisK in reply toFastbeat

I will accept it as well and hope you had a wonderful day. X

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Fastbeat in reply toPhyllisK

Thanks I did

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Fastbeat

Sorry done it again promise I've not been drinking

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PhyllisK in reply toFastbeat

😁😁

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Sixtychick

Christmas greetings. Hope 2025 is a good year for us all.

I remember the snow in winter of 1962/63. . I was 11 years old then.the snow was really deep where we lived. I’d never seen anything like it I believe it was the coldest UK winter on record.

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Efka

Yes all is well, sending you best wishes.

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Suny1

Seasons Greetings to you too Bob and thank you for your knowledgeable wise advice always.

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Auriculaire

Season's greetings to all from sunny south west France. The thermometer on our balcony got up to 29° in the sun yesterday and I was able to sunbathe!!! We had our aperitif ( miniscule glass of walnut wine for me ) and starter outside. Today we woke to a very heavy frost - pretty. Not normal weather but nice. Wishing you all an afib free festive season. Thought I'd copped it last night after a slice of chocolate cake (no Christmas puds here unless you make your own) as I felt really odd but decided it was a caffeine hit from too much chocolate in the cake. I'll have to write to Nigella and complain!

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Ossie7 in reply toAuriculaire

Now that is a seasonal variation , 29 ‘ C to minus in one day !!!! So odd ! X

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Auriculaire in reply toOssie7

Not unusual here though 29° in the sun is high. Looks like it will be the same today so off out to garden and no cardi!

BobD profile image
BobDVolunteer in reply toAuriculaire

Ah Nigella. Be still me beating heart.

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Auriculaire in reply toBobD

Personally I can't stand her but she does have good recipes! Though I have tweaked this chocolate cake recipe. I'm too conservative cake wise to put oil , yoghurt and tahini in cakes so have substituded melted butter , double cream and hazelnut butter. Much more French.

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CDreamer in reply toAuriculaire

That sounds like a Denver mountain weather variation - 4 seasons in one day! Hope you enjoyed, walnut wine sounds fascinating.

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Auriculaire in reply toCDreamer

Although called vin de noix it is really a liqueur and is a Perigord traditional product usually drunk as an aperitif. You can buy it in the shops but ours is made by friends from their own trees. Apparently it is made with the shells still on. There is also a delicious dessert - a walnut ice cream which is served with a good slosh of the liqueur on top.

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Vonnegut

The thick white mist here is perhaps a variation on the classic white Christmas! And it’s Hanukah too!

Thanx for yr wisdom & knowledge shared throughout the past year.

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108cat

Deep gratitude to everyone for their sharing, kindness, good humour and honesty, it's been an invaluable friendly support through this time of learning about AF - learning how to cope ...

In '62 I remember crossing snowy fields to get to the big school for lessons - very chilly boarding school .. snow everywhere ..

Love and light,

Cat x

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Gertsen

Merry Christmas 🎄

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Kimmieblue

Thank you for your wise advice and comments on this forum Bob. Seasons greetings to you.

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CDreamer

May hearts remain peaceful and calm.

I remember ‘62 snow, the Mersey froze & there were tiny icebergs in the sea. No central heating and ice inside the windows. I was told ‘this is nothing compared to ‘47! How the weather has changed. Every winter until the mid 70’s we went tobagganing. But what I loved best was that EVERYTHING stopped until after NY and I so enjoyed that time to breath and be still for a while.

Happy, peaceful Holidays.

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BobDVolunteer in reply toCDreamer

I remember how my hands and feet hurt so much in '47!

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CDreamer in reply toBobD

I can’t go back that far Bob but do remember standing waiting for a bus at the top of Dale Street with the freezing wind coming off the Mersey - in a mini skirt and knee high white, patent boots. All feeling below the hip line was lacking for days. Oh the youngsters don’t know what they missed! We didn’t need to go Ice Man training, we just had to step outside.

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Marymara

Thankyou Bob, have a good one.

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Snowgirl65

A lovely post. Best wishes to you and yours, BobD!

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Ducky2003

Same to you Bob. I wasn't born in 1962......... I'll just leave that there 🤣.

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Fifine

Happy Christmas time to you and all you kind people who have shared your knowledge and experiences with us. May 2025 be a great one for all of us 🙏

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KiwiBlake

Nice warm summer day here in New Zealand, just a hot blustery wind today.

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GrannyE

Is RUDOLPH’S carrot still there? Guess Santa did not get stuck in the chimney but as my great granddaughter says he is magic which is why he can unstick himself.

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Lovefrance

Thank you Bob and for all your good advice. Best wishes to everyone on here and May we all keep well and continue to give all the help we can to our friends on this forum. The support is invaluable and has helped me keep calm and carry on many a time!

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TenorJK

I remember walking to school on top of the snow piled at the side of the pavements to clear the path in ‘47,!!!!Great fun for children.

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