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Did another #lafires trip South, this time to The Dream Center in LA, last time was the Calico Fish House in Huntington Beach. Wow! what a turnout of cars, volunteers, food trucks, and corporate donations 💙🇺🇸

Omw down I heard the above song and how apropos was that 😍

Two of my patients run a thrift store up here and they received a ton of stuff to donate. It's a Mom and daughter and they're the middle of that four generation family at our office 😁

ArizonaMike wife sent $ and I got stuff from Walmart.

Took a Side trip to Santa Monica pier for Beach Therapy and a hike, of course 😆

Then a stop at an Asian market for veggies:

gai lan, shiitakes, and wintermelon,

photos.app.goo.gl/cuRzb36RV...

Hope that y'all are doing well 🙏

I'm living the best Life I can🤩

Mahalo nui loa for the support 🥰

QoL on

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KocoPr

Your living LARGE buddy!

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dockam in reply toKocoPr

Mahalo nui la Brother💙

youtu.be/HKvxZyM5QdA?si=idj...

Just tryna do the best I can with whatever time that I have left. I'm so Blessed to still be here over 10 years after and wanna Spread Aloha whilst I'm still able

QoL on

Randy

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Kaliber

between your patients, working clearing out houses, travel , beach vibing and representing for our passed brothers , ….. I Dunno how you have time for anything else , wow. You have a big heart buddy.

Salud compadre

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dockam in reply toKaliber

Mahalo nui loa Bruddah Kal, ya know how hyper I am, that may be part of why I'm still Standin -Yea, Yea, Yea 😃.

Office open 4 sometimes 5 days/week and I love driving/music, maybe with Road Beers😜 🍻. So with a Friday off, by Sat I can be bored - but #lafires trip was needed and I had so much collected that I couldn't just stay home and NOT take it down.

I combine things into trips, as y'all have noticed. The 1st trip I did a drop off, beach hike, visit to In Laws and Betty's. #2 drop off, SM and 99 Ranch. This Friday, maybe another drop off if needed and a Betty run. No Ventura for a few weekends

youtu.be/WZn9QZykx10?si=pni...

My 💙 has grown like The Grinch "You're a mean one Dr Kam"😁 esp post #stageivpca. Probs due to low T

Much Love to you Kal

Aloha nui loa to y'all

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Kaliber in reply todockam

Love ya back little buddy ….

Later alligator 🐊 lol

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dockam in reply toKaliber

Speakin of Love, two of my lil granddaughters, 1st time in the snow. The elder was born in 2015 and that's the year I was dx'd

youtu.be/DYB5vLzEHvI?si=RwV...

Louisiana Snowstorm
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Kaliber in reply todockam

well the good news is that they didn’t have to drive to a national park or snow play area. The bad news is they didn’t have to drive too a ……….. Rotflol. 5” of snow at my brothers in law apartment near Houston…. First time. In nearly 100 years . lol. Houston’s minds are blown.

If that ever happened here, it’d kill 69% of all veggies eaten in the rest of the country. Gonna be about 68-70f here today and tomorrow. In jacuzzi right now, trying for the zoo in my echair after lunch.

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dockam in reply toKaliber

We have a snow alert this Sat at 4pm to Mon at 4pm snow at 3500ft - hope no mudslides in La

Yay for jacuzzis

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Kaliber in reply todockam

That little storm passed us and did t rain, radar shows it headed south nearly to you at 10:30 a.m. . Sat.

Wasn’t much energy in it, prolly won’t be much of a problem there. Hopefully lol.

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dockam in reply toKaliber

We got snow today

Snow time
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Kaliber in reply todockam

Did you get any serious snow ? Didja have to shovel any. ?

Been low to mid 60s here , couple higher, couple lower.

Picture is partial of the tower ( hippy ) district on Friday just before the jaw dropping noon crush. Rotflol.

Miraculously …. Out and about … lol

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Tower district before noon ….
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dockam in reply toKaliber

Not serious snow maybe 2 inches, just spread road salt on the office sidewalk this am

photos.app.goo.gl/EpKUvBQb2...

Mostly gone already

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Kaliber in reply todockam

Woooooo hooooooo great snow video buddy. I’m impressed , love it. Those were big snowflakes …huh …. . We don’t have that up here, that I know of. Playing in the snow is great fun for everyone. Especially when the big soft snowflakes are falling. Late night there, I’ll bet you can almost hear them. You could make “ noir “ movies and be good at it.

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dockam in reply toKaliber

I love how serene/peaceful it is in the snow, saw a bunch of people in the local park playing in it. Last night on my walk saw many snowmen in the neighborhoods. Big fat floating flakes, I'd rather hike in falling snow than rain

Another vid: photos.app.goo.gl/AzRQ2tfH3...

Snow on

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CAMPSOUPS in reply todockam

Another good capture. LOve snow like that. Good vid brother.

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dockam in reply toCAMPSOUPS

Mahalo and Yes, so heavenly out there amidst the gentle fatty snow flakes falling onto me. Not crazy blizzard conditions

From March 1, 2023 photos.app.goo.gl/28Vn5fVoP...

youtu.be/4EizR92SQ38?si=Kzb...

QoL on

Spring On

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CAMPSOUPS in reply todockam

Wow what a find. Hadnt heard of her. And she plays a Rickenbacker of all things. Cool. That always was a good song.

Thanks bro

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dockam in reply toCAMPSOUPS

She started the Bangles who sang Walk like an Egyptian

youtube.com/watch?v=Cv6tuzH...

youtube.com/watch?v=C7bk74A...

I dig lady Rockers eg Benatar, Joan Jett, Stevie Nicks, and Patty Smith

youtube.com/watch?v=6OjW1TD...

Rock on

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Kaliber in reply todockam

welp you definitely seem like a guy that appreciates snow alright. Myself , I’ll just hang out down here on the valley floor , in my chaise lounge , sipping my tangy lemonade…… sitting under my banana tree jungle . Rotflol.

I lived in winter snow until I was 12 years old, Cincinnati, S.E. Indiana. When you live out on a distant farm, winters can be harsh.

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dockam in reply toKaliber

I dig the fat fluffy flakes and not crazy single digit or negative temps blizzards, still that sun loving Hawaii boy😂

And ya know how I love Beach Therapy, sun, beers, fish tacos and the Pier. I wasn't ever stuck homebound with feet of snow outside, so a lil snow brings me some joy, peace, serenity.

Hadn't been in snow til my teens when I was in LA for college and ventured up to Big Bear

Lounge on Bruddah

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Kaliber in reply todockam

Luckily you have a kinda straight shot to the water from there ( figuratively speaking ). Those basket loads of negative ions off the beach soothes any furrowed brow. It’s an addictive thing of pleasure. I am surprised tho, that you never saw any snow in Hawaii, I would have thought that being so rare in the islands , you and your family would have picnicked up there in the snow many times .

Weather cleared up here , down the valley , very pleasantly…slight chances of “ some “ on the weekend and “ significant “ rain next week. Great “ getting out “ opportunities here.

Maaaan , my world had been coming apart / becoming nasty and unglued last few weeks. Increasing as time passed. About 6 weeks ago I decided to quit benzos and went off my Xanax ….. thinking maybe gummies could substitute for them and give me a break from benzos. I’ve taken Xanax everyday for mostly the last 6 years and 3 months. Panic attacks related to my breathing and my cpap machine , trying to go bed at night , had become overwhelming . Downright scary unpleasant. This stopped me from having rem sleep and put me into benzo withdrawal. Losing rem sleep can rock your world in a bad way.

Anyway , first I thought “ why “ quit if it’s helping so much …. Duhhhh …. Then I realized if I was going to get any rem sleep, I have to get back to Xanax again.

Did that last night for first time in weeks and woke up feeling like a new person, especially mentally. WOW what a difference. Since I could croak anytime / any minute ( years overdue ) , being worried about benzos is misplaced concern and my being - feeling good is the appropriate paramount focus. lol. This is the best morning - start of the day I’ve had in many weeks …. and boy I’m a happy camper this morning. Rotflol. Almost as good as those negative ions at the beach brother.

Love ya buddy

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Orange95 in reply toKaliber

I am glad you are feeling better.

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CAMPSOUPS in reply toKaliber

Yea I liked that video too. Those nice flowing flakes in the shimmering light look like what I call a 32 degree snow (fahrenheit). Around the midwest its another sign your coming out of the 20 below zero stuff. Momentarily anyway lol.

Here in the artic (twin cities where I've been for 4 years lol) the snow is melting also. And I am absolutely fine with that lol. Somewhere in history they really took a "if you cant beat it join it" attitude about the winters here. Everyone seems to be dissapointed in mild winters ha, lol.

Living in Iowa and Chicago I don't remember anyone being disappointed in lack of snow and lack of severely cold weather to keep the lakes frozen lol.

snow meltin in the artic
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This is kinda like 10 or 15 degree snow and of course some wind lol.

Its fun at first. Hunkered down with good food, feelin cozy in the warm house lookin out the window watchin a movie, the excitement of if the weather is going to get worse.

But then it gets old lol.

cold snow and wind
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Come on mother nature. Aint pretty no more lol.

melt baby melt
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dockam in reply toCAMPSOUPS

Nope, not the kinda snow that I wanna deal with😜

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Carlosbach in reply toCAMPSOUPS

You guys and all of this snow talk is chilling my old bones.

So far we have missed out on any snow this winter, just nighttime temps in the upper 20's. I always turn into a big kid in the fresh snow. I love frolicking in the snow with the kids, grandkids and dogs. Now days though my balance is sometimes iffy, so best to stay indoors and watch your pics and videos.

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Kaliber in reply toCAMPSOUPS

Yikes …. Twin cities …. You absolutely do know about snow. lol. I dunno, back when I lived in snow / cold weather I liked it. I welcomed the changing seasons. You really learn to appreciate seasons . Here it’s never really cold , we have the hot season and the warm season. Days , sometimes, can be chilly here in winter , nights can approach freezing , but it warms up 30-35 degrees in the daytime.

Now that I’m old, my bonz work better in the warm weather Rotflol. Plus can’t risk falling down too. lol I can go see 12’ deep snow , 45 minutes east of here and play in it if I want. The hammer and I still have cross country skis out in the garage.

I’m past that type of snow fun nowadays , but I enjoyed it and wish I had done more of it when I was able.

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HikerWife

Randy, you are a resounding success at spreading Aloha. We all love you here, you are such a ray of sunshine and a real inspiration. Keep on keepin' on!❤️

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dockam in reply toHikerWife

Awww Malaho nui loa Sista HW💙. Life's too short to be bitter, angry, ungrateful or to stay home😜

As I drove up to the Dream Center dreamcenter.org/?utm_source... and queued up amidst all the other cars, I was elated to be able to help. Then as I turned and saw the dozens of volunteers, my heart skipped a lil. What a glorious sight it was to see how the Community came out.

For anyone who hasn't seen this: youtu.be/iY91ClURQJQ?si=yt-...

Cui bono - who benefits, the giver or the receiver. Both parties do😃

Give on

QoL on

Much Aloha and Love to you Sis/ andHubs

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msnik

thanks for posting. you ripple !!!

I am going to listen to the song a second time now.

thank you.

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dockam in reply tomsnik

You're so very welcome and always my pleasure.

Here's the version that I heard in the car

youtu.be/7-q-uzh7fQI?si=MtI...

My best to y'all on your PCa journey

QoL on

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SeosamhM

QoL on, brother!

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dockam in reply toSeosamhM

Mahalo nui loa my Brother, Imma keep on QoLing til I can't no mo.

youtu.be/NVbMrffxs-c?si=UBm...

"All I wanna do is have a lil fun before I die"

Keep on QoLin on

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j-o-h-n

I can't help but wonder when I see your gesturing with your two fingers that you must have been a Roman ordering five beers in your prior life.

p.s. While you guys are in L.A. I would suggest you all wear asbestos underwear.

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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dockam in reply toj-o-h-n

Ohh, that's sounds wonderful😜. V for Victory (Vendetta?) or Peace?

Ill Take Five

youtube.com/watch?v=PHdU5sH...

I have aluminum foil undies on😂

QoL on

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Kaliber in reply todockam

TMI….. Buddy ….. but(t). … they match your stylish foil helmet. Perfectly coordinated ensemble.

They sound practical …. just wipe them off with a McDonalds napkin and you’re ready to roll. What’s better than that.

Just say’in

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dockam in reply toKaliber

No need as the storm put the fires out, hope no landslides.

youtu.be/WM7-PYtXtJM?si=yC0...

Laters Bro

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Kaliber in reply todockam

Thank goodness not much happened with this new weather. Those poor souls have been thru and continue to be living in hell. It wasn’t just their home of 4-5 generations, in places the whole neighborhood is totally gone. Nothing you remember about it exists anymore. No land marks, businesses , nothing at all. It’s mind boggling to say the least. Yikes …

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Orange95

You always make me smile and your posts so full of positive wonderful things. Thank you!

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dockam in reply toOrange95

Yaaaay😁, You're Welcome and it's my raison d'etre, to uplift and inspire. QoLing boosts my mood too.

youtu.be/351l62Yx0oI?si=kzU...

Life is Beautiful

Smile on

QoL on

My best to y'all on the PCa journey

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Orange95 in reply todockam

Thank you! We are in a great mood this week, hubby is slowly feeling better. Also we got first granddaughter born on Jan.20. So we have grandson and granddaughter now. It is great, very blessed.

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dockam in reply toOrange95

Awww, how wonderful. I'm middle of 3 boys, had 4 boys, then a girl, then 3 grand daughters. My baby girl is preggers with a boy, she had Penelope in 2023.

Same here #Blessed and Grateful💙🙏

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garyjp9

You seem to be doing a very good job of "living the best life you can!"

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dockam in reply togaryjp9

Mahalo nui loa Brother, maybe it's that Azn in me and tryna get the A+ in class😜

Think I got the high score in the PCa Game of Life with 39 chemos😆

youtu.be/pU-QExgydz0?si=I7z...

QoL on

Sing on

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garyjp9

You got the highest score that I know of -- A+ for you!

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dockam in reply togaryjp9

But, it took the 28 IMRTs in Spring 2023 to keep PSA at 0.5. Off Lupron for months now and T under 10 - my guys are fried 😜

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garyjp9

Mine too 😑

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Yea, no Southern Area activity 🤣

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