UAS surgery

[Oldeenglishbulldogge]

Hello everyone! Let me give you a little history on what I'm about to ask and let me say up front that I appreciate all the answers and the advice. My urinary incontinence has gotten really really bad in the last 6 months or so to the point where I had to take off of work and I'm looking at therapy and artificial urinary sphincter surgery. I want to try therapy but I don't want to have to wait 8 to 10 months to see if it's working and if I get the surgery I want to be able to have the implant put in at the same time So my question is has anybody ever had the artificial sphincter surgery has anybody had the implant and has anybody had them at the same time and if you have had them together or separately what your experience.? Because I'm not the kind of guy that likes to take off work also let me ask this and excuse me if it offends anybody I am truly sorry but I haven't had sex with my wife in 5 years and I want to try quad mix I tried try mix didn't work I have the mixture but I haven't used it because of my urinary incontinence any advice on any of these things please if you can help I would definitely listen and all advice as welcome thank you so much for listening