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Hello Friends, I wanted to take the time to share that I am leaving this forum. I joined in 2016 after being apart os a Usenet group on advanced prostate cancer for 12 years...... yes, I was first diagnosed with Stage 4 metastatic prostate cancer with two metastatic lesions in my spine on May 3, 2004, nineteen years ago. Today I continue to have no evidence of cancer in my body. 

I joined this forum to give hope and positive thought. I’ll continue to best you the best in treating this terrible disease and hope that you kill the little bastards as Doctor Robert Amato accomplished with me.

Unfortunately I have seen many, many men succumb to metastatic prostate cancer with a variety of treatment. Men who came to this forum with different scope of disease. Men who came with co-morbidity factors and weaken body strength. Sad are those who were metastatic at first diagnosis. Do all that you can to kill the little bastards! After 19 years, this continues to be my guiding principle.

Gourd Dancer

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plato123

wow man I really liked your vibe, not sure what to say

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davidw777

This is a big loss to the forum.

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Stickingaround1

gourd_dancer. I came in in February 2017 after I was dx with metastatic pca. You are one person who helped and inspired me at that time. I have been off the forum but since I follow you - one of the very few, I got the notification. By the way, when I was first diagnosed, I went straight to finding as much about a cancer fighting diet and supplements. Although I was on ADT, had serious radiation, and my prostate removed when it shrunk enough to yank out, I credit the people on this board who use a more holistic approach - which is why I have been any form of treatment since January 2019 and have no evidence of PCA as of this writing. This is fight that you helped me win as of this second. Thank you and accept my undying gratitude how you helped so many people. Warmly. Sticking around

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Aodh

Thank you for your support and encouragement. Your posts helped me greatly when I was diagnosed in 2019. I will miss you on this forum.

I wish you the very best from here on.

Thank you.

Hugh

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cesces in reply to Aodh

Not to worry. I'm sticking around. LoL

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Adendino

I have read many of your previous posts and replies and there is A LOT of valuable info. If you leave the forum, please do not delete your account as I really hope all this info isn't lost to those of us who want to reference it in the future.

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Daddyishealing in reply to Adendino

I agree .you can leave your legacy and help many men by not shutting the account but just with a smile end this chapter of your life .

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PSAed

For me reading your posts gives me hope especially when I needed it most while on ADT. Sorry to hear you are leaving but I fully understand you might finally want to put it all behind you and live your life disease free. Best wises.

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j-o-h-n

Gourd Dancer, you leaving us? Geez only two words to say "awwww shit"

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Friday 05/05/2023 11:06 PM DST

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cesces in reply to j-o-h-n

John, may we assume you are going to stay through thick and thin.

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j-o-h-n in reply to cesces

You must be a psychic because your assumption will soon be discussed by a meeting of my board of directors who will decide my fate....Thanks for the concern....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Saturday 05/06/2023 1:48 PM DST

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ragnar2020

Gourd Dancer, I have read your postings since I found HU several years ago, and you helped me learn about this disease. Take care of yourself and enjoy your life. Good luck.

Jeff

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Spyder54

Gourd Dancer, no reason to leave. Why?

You are an asset to all of us. Do what I do, check in, get caught up, and take a vacation, then come back. This doesn't have to be full time. Come and go as you please, but no need to leave permenantly.

Mike

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hansjd

Thank you for being part of this forum and an inspiration to us all. Stay well and enjoy your life.

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NickJoy

Thank you for all of the help and support you have provided.

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erjlg3

Gourd, you will be s0o missed. We've all been together for so long. I hope you are blessed beyond measure. erjlg3@yahoo.com even for an ear.

God bless you Gourd

It's been a long time.

I will miss you

🌻Jackie♥️

my reply is :,(

my wish is peace 2 U 4 ♾️x♾️

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forest-dweller

Does that mean all posts, replies are now gone? I’d be very sorry to hear that as much as I’m thrilled for you. Live well and be happy.

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cesces in reply to forest-dweller

Yes, I was wondering the same thing.

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DarrylPartner in reply to forest-dweller

search (with google site search or here) for “Gourd Dancer” the posts he did not delete are still here

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Baldylocks

I only now came across you because I took notice to your farewell. I feared a message of sadness was coming forth but instead I discover a wonderful, hopeful story in place. The sadness is your departure and not continuing to share your down your path with any future sole befallen by cancer. The many that have known and followed no doubt know your story and many likely have been helped.

Yours is a story to give help to any newcomer here that might avoid despair in hearing your story over those 19 plus years. Yours is not an easy wisdom to come by. You don’t know me and certainly you owe me nothing but I dare to ask that you stay on and keep telling it? Keep sharing for all the newbies to come for as long as you can. Your story is only old to you but fresh to anyone else that needs it. I thank you.

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Ramp7

May the dance continue.

mangeycritter profile image
mangeycritter

Come back Shane

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PSAed in reply to mangeycritter

wow! That’s a blast from the past. Thanks for the memory. Alan Ladd.

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dhccpa

Best wishes to you. Thanks for your input over the years.

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Magnus1964

Best of luck, I wish good health for you.

Magnus

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Scout4answers

I will miss your wise counsel and positive vibe.

I noticed that you have gone “hidden “which means that we can no longer see your posts, which I have found useful, please reconsider that status.

I wish you a great life and hope to be lucky enough to have similar results.

Scout

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DarrylPartner in reply to Scout4answers

search (with google site search or here) for “Gourd Dancer” the posts he did not delete are still here

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Brysonal

sorry to read. You have been by go to profile for hope and helped me decide that throwing the works at it early was not a mad thing to do.

You will be missed by me for sure. Thank you for taking part in your clinical trial back in the day and telling your story that for some a cure is indeed possible.

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MMK-XFuture

Best of luck and please continue to check in when time permits. Good health.

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MateoBeach

Thanks for all your contributions and especially your example proving metastatic PC can be cured. Farewell.

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Izzygirl1

Thank you for all your help. I selfishly wish you would stay but wish you all the BEST!! ❤️

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bigwillyphd

Does anyone know how I could go back through and read his posts? Or do they disappear? I'd sure like to learn from his experience.

Darryl profile image
DarrylPartner in reply to bigwillyphd

search (with google site search or here) for “Gourd Dancer” the posts he did not delete are still here

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Bhraen2

Reading Gourd Dancers history two and a half years ago was the first ray of hope I had in my pca journey. His doctors out of the box thinking cured him. It also made it clear that any treatment used earlier in a patient’s diagnosis is far superior to being used later or within the time frame that the fda approves for SOC.

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Daddyishealing

. I always admired you . Bf you go if you have your natural protocol would you post it or send it to me so that it can be passed on to others . I'm losing my dad but when I get courage enough if I love through this I plan to advocate for the remainder of my life and you always had unique ways and researched backed supplements which I'd love a copy of if that's not to much to ask. Ty for your inspiration here.

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Scout4answers in reply to Daddyishealing

Please share when you get these.

treedown profile image
treedown

I would say you achieved your goals for the time you were here. Just sorry that future members will miss out on your input.Best wishes to you and yours.

Jmr11820 profile image
Jmr11820

Congratulations!

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CAMPSOUPS

Kind of some unnecessary silliness. Kind of arrogant. Kind of liking making a stand against--what? In the end only selfishly lessens present and future brothers positive experience with the presence you had here.

You totally left the forum becoming "hidden" so unless you rejoned under a different sign in name you aren't seeing this and the other responses. Silly.

Now hidden your home/bio page is not accessible/relatable for those who could benefit from it. A shame.

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softwaremom00

Best of luck and keep kicking cancer out the door! Prayers for you too!

garyjp9 profile image
garyjp9

You will be missed here, for sure. All the best to you.

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