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Celebrated my 61st bday at home in Hawaii

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I spent 4 days here: eating anything, having beers, enjoying family(esp my 89 yr old Mom). Did the Hibiscus 1/2 marathon - ran with a lady with her 7yr old - she met me last year and told her about the PCa. Lazily drove around the island to see the sights.

Life is good. Fight on brothers

Randy

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Hazard

Happy birthday Randy!

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dockam in reply to Hazard

Mahalo

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ctarleton

Good for you, Randy! That's a great view from atop Diamond Head, isn't it?

(Just behind you past your right shoulder, my sweetie and I spent some time quite a few years ago in The New Otani Kaimana Beach Hotel. It has a different vibe than the bigger resort/chain hotels. I still remember those relaxing morning outdoor breakfasts and evening dinners under the deep shade of the low hanging trees, right there on the beach.)

Charles

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dockam in reply to ctarleton

Yes, the summit of Diamond Head overlooking Waikik

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Schwah

I’m heading to Hawaii Saturday. Leaving my Prostate cancer at home. Glad you’re living the life!!! Life is good.

Schwah.

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dockam in reply to Schwah

Carpe diem brother. This will get you in the mood:

youtu.be/iY91ClURQJQ

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Oohhhyaahhh! Mahalo!

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That's gonna be my new theme song - I spoke to many on my trip about the PCa abd getting Dad's screened etc. I had long talk with a Hawaiian Air steward and we shared contact info. I met medical office in HI and asked them to host a ZERO 5k event and hopefully one will wanna do it. I gotta get mt "bruddahs" to get checked

Mahalo - Randy -Lanaki in Hawaiian :-)

in reply to Schwah

Aloha!

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DeanNelson

Dude!!!! That’s awesome...happy birthday!!!

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dockam in reply to DeanNelson

Mahalo, left my worries for a while!

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Jeff54

Graduation! Keep up the fight! God bless you Dockam!

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dockam in reply to Jeff54

Thank you is was nice to be home and with fam and eat anything I wanted :-)

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Clarejb

Sounds wonderful! Happy birthday :) x

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dockam in reply to Clarejb

Mahalo, can't dwell too much on the negative. Accentuate the positive - an oldie but goodie

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Drcrunch

The amazing dentist. You look 51. What are you eating. Happy Birthday and many more.

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dockam in reply to Drcrunch

Mahalo. Haha, I've been sorta low carb lean protein, whole grains, fruits/veggies for yrs. Prolly my Chinese ancestry - Asians tend to not look their age

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Daddysdaughter

Happy Birthday!! Your looking great, and feeling great! so happy for you!! Life is great when your doing what you love to do! Make everyday count!!

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dockam in reply to Daddysdaughter

I loved getting away and home is where the heart is. Now, I'm back in CA and have pts this pm. :-(

My best to you and your Father

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greatjohn

GREAT!

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dockam in reply to greatjohn

Yes it was epic!

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Chiquis

Happy Birthday and many more!🎂🙏🎈💛

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dockam in reply to Chiquis

Mahalo, I'm 3 1/2 yrs post Stage IV Dx and have so much to be around for 💖

Wish I could still rip off a 13.1, you lucky dog. I'm hitting the wall at 10, (9:30 pace). congrats on your great time.

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Well, if you slow down that first 10 and you could save stamina for the last 5k push to the finish. Ever since the cancer in 2015, I haven't broken 10 min miles. I was last at the OC marathon in 2015 - three days post chemo:

ocregister.com/2015/04/30/c...

Randy

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softwaremom00 in reply to dockam

Awesome!

good man, keep enjoying the good food ,beers and family love.....there aint much else that counts really....good health bro

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You got that right brother

Great pic! Mahalo! 🤙🏽

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Dan59

Happy Birthday Randy, The view is awesome.

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dockam in reply to Dan59

Mahalo - I go visit home twice a year and this time decided to post it here

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leo2634

Happy Birthday Larry you bring us all a whole new meaning to life is good. Awesome Brother.

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dockam in reply to leo2634

Mahalo - life is too short to be bitter and angry

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larry_dammit

Right on Brother, life is not over just because we have this monster. Enjoy yourself every day. 😀😀😀

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dockam in reply to larry_dammit

I got a new attitude and I don't sweat the little sh*t anymore

Mahalo - Randy

Life is Good! Enjoy each day. Happy Birthday!

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Mahalo - we all have some demons lurking, but the it's how you deal with that is just a part of life.

Spread a little Aloha

Randy

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chillywilly

Hi Dockam,

I was just in O’ahu also! Came back last night. I wish I had known you’d be there. We could have met for pupus. My wife ran part of the 1/2 marathon (too late to sign up but ran a little part of the course). Enjoying life to the fullest! Did a hike a day. Koko Head, and rim! Pali puka, and more. Even performed at the Waikiki Boardwalk (I belong to a human halau in Sacramento). Take that Stage IV!! 💪🏽🤙🏽

Aloha

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chillywilly in reply to chillywilly

Not human, hula. 😁

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dockam in reply to chillywilly

Awesome bruddah, I go home twice a year. Next time in Dec for HNL marathon and real poke

Mahalo

Randy

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zenbee13

You go Bro! Way to be in the moment! Blessings all around!

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dockam in reply to zenbee13

Yup, this song from like the 1970's expresses that feeling. A Hawaiian Duo named Cecilio and Kapono

youtube.com/watch?v=24iruj2...

Aloha - Randy

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drsridhar53

Great for you dockam. A friend of mine in Hawaii has extended me an open invitation. I must make use of it. I live with my 95 year old mother (she has no other support). She is a TRUE cancer survivor. Had hystrectomy in 1979. It came back 1981. Had what I would call primitive radiation treatment (just tie a tube of radio active Cobalt overnight), three nights in 1981. Since then free of cancer!!

We should have hope. Medicine today is far more advanced and refined. I envisage a day not far off, when PC may mean just an evening visit to the doctor' surgery, and a handful of capsules, or maybe a vaccination!!!. Though I am not sure I will be around to benefit from that miracle.

Tail up

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dockam in reply to drsridhar53

That could be a little tough to get to Hawaii with your Mom needing care, but maybe someday you'll get there and just relax

Mahalo - Randy

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j-o-h-n

I guess "just another shitty day in paradise". Hang 61! hauʻoli lā hānau

youtube.com/watch?v=VNr61Sp...

Good Luck and Good Health.

j-o-h-n Thursday 05/31/2018 8:18 PM EDT

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dockam in reply to j-o-h-n

Mahalo - great video, couldn't tell if the singer prostate or not :-)

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Nicnatno

Happy birthday Randy. Did you get a chance to surf? Hang loose brother.

Nick

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dockam in reply to Nicnatno

Mahalo - I'm no swimmer, I like being on dry land.

Randy, you look fit as a fiddle... stop by the CANNON CLUB on your way down from DH , I’ll buy you a Sam Magoo, the best from Olangapo.

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Mahalo - Awesome- I'll be back in Dec for HNL marathon and to see Ohana and eat some more

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