Krazy Bear. I'm sorry you're finding this site useless to you. I don't look at all the posts and I understand that many of the posts have little relevance to your particular needs. But every now and then you will find something here that works for you. And, perhaps far more important, you will find from time to time either general discussions that are useful and, still more important, a question or issue to which YOU have good information to offer. Helping someone when you can is a pathway to healing yourself.
And, no--I don't work for the website. Just a wounded healer like you can be.