So my son was diagnosed at 5 and yes they were some rough times. Now he is 12 and his anger, back talking, impulsive crying spells and uncontrollable emotional regulation is so taxing. I often feel like a failure, like my expectations are too high.. but I’m perplexed that he has no behavior problems in school and if a man gives directives he has no problem listening... it’s just me.. the one constant in his life. I feel so defeated and can’t help but to think I’m failing him. Then to top it all, I’m a “yeller” and that only makes things worse. Maybe my lack of emotional regulation is hereditary. Smh.