After a really GREAT week..I mean best in months, my 11 yr old refused to take her medication this morning. She LIKES the medicine..it's her attempt to control the situation and make me angry. We've had this happen a few times before and talked to therapist, psy. about it. She admits that she refuses to take it to get me mad.
So..not wanting to 'feed' that, I said 'Ok: it is your choice to not take your medicine, but you know the consequences. (We won't take her to her activities unless she does). I calmly walked by her and said, 'I'm getting ready for work now." She forcibly stopped me and started whacking at me. I pushed my way past and went into my room that does not lock..ugh! She pushed her way in then just kept attacking me. Physically and verbally. I called police at one point and that got her to stop. (they said to call 911..which I never did).
Bottom-line of this: She needs to take her medication and now we need to add the mood medication the psychriatrist prescribed a few weeks back...BUT I don't know 'how' to get her to take it. He won't do paperwork for an inpatient until we try the 'mood' medication...sereoquel. We met this weekend with him and he explained to her what the mood medication would do...she was on-board with it. I'm at a loss...She absolutely needs the Ritalin to function..we have tried life without it...not pretty.
Dumping now: I also feel really guilty b/c right now I really don't like my daughter right now and found myself counting the years until she is on her own. I feel like I've given up...at least right now. I'm so worn out from the bruises and verbal vileness. I'll come back after a bit of time, but as each outburst happens it just pushes me further and further away..and her too... I know I'm her parent and I'm responsible for her, but I'm also human and don't want to be abused anymore. My husband has been great, but is also starting to crack emotionally over this.
So, later today, or maybe even tomorrow..(sometimes it takes more than a day), she will repent from what she did. At that point, we are going to have to lay-down rules..again...one of them being she has to take the Sereoquel. Another, we need to see therapist. Thanks for 'listening'...Wish me luck.