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[Bubba_6]

Hi , I'm new to this and don't know where to start. I was just diagnosed with breast cancer 3DAYS before New year's. IT WAS ALSO IN MY LEFT UNDERARM LYMPH NODE. I WILL BE HONEST I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT. 2015 FOR US WAS A DIFFICULT YEAR AS WE LOST OUR SON OF 27 YRS OLD AND 2MONTHS AFTER MY MOM. SO WITH THIS I'M LOST AND IN A DAZE .

[Maryeg]

I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. Your in my prayers. God Bless

[Jessydontcare]

Hi there Angel

I am really sorry to hear about your loss and what will happen now is they will discuss options with you and see what you want to do they always offer surgery first then chemotherapy. It depends on how you feel and I suggest maybe best if you take someone with you as it can be overwhelming. If you ever need to talk then let us know.

[Bubba_6 in reply to Jessydontcare]

Thank you so very much!. I think the biggest shock was that i was told over the phone

[LeslieVa in reply to Bubba_6]

I was told over the phone as well. The surgeon wouldn't even call it Cancer. He just told me they found something. I had to ask him if it was malignant. Try not to think of the way you were told. Just try to move forward gather information and concentrate on your next move. SHARE has a Helpline that's operated by BC Survivors 9am-9pm. They can also match you up with a Peer who has been through what you are about to experiance and help you through the process.

[Bubba_6 in reply to Jessydontcare]

I Really appreciate it!

[mrsschwartz SHARE Volunteer]

So ,so sorry to hear of your muktiple losses. There are no good words to communicate what you've experienced, nor words to make it better. But, with your breast cancer diagnosis, this site can offer you the knowledge and support that will make navigating what lies ahead much easier. Over the next few weeks as you consult with doctors, let us know what's happening. As you consider treatment plans that could include chemo, surgery or radiation therapy, post your questions and thoughts. Many of us,who have been through what you're facing, can help you understand and digest not just facts, but also feelings.if you want more immediate help, call the Share Helpline where a trained survivor will talk to you in real time and answer questions one on one. We can't change what has happened but we can provide a safe place for you to share whatever it is that's happening. Good luck and please keep us in the loop

[Suzieqat62]

Sorry for your losses and prayers are with you.

Best advice find someone to research with you and have a good support network.

[daf10]

You made the first important step towards getting the support that you need by posting on this website. It is hard to be optimistic when you have already had to face two deaths in the family We at the SHARE community are here to help you. I am sure your doctors gave you a good prognosis. I hope this helps I was diagnosed 15.5 years ago with a similar diagnosis and doing fine.

Ask the staff where you are getting treatment if they have a support program Talking to other women who are going through the same thing helps lessen the fear and anxiety level that you are most likely experiencing. With today's advances in medicine, I have a good feeling with the passing of time, that you too will be able to one day write to someone and share your story of survivorship.

Here's to a brighter future

[Bubba_6 in reply to daf10]

Im waiting for the doctors to give me the options. I'm grateful to have found this website,for it will help me with everything!

[RLN-overcomer]

Greetings: sister/warrior. I am so sorry to hear that in a short time period you have faced some difficult challenges.Stand strong, don't give up or give in, put your fighting gloves on. What doesn't break you will make you stronger.I was diagnosed almost ten years ago with triple negative breast cancer and like you I had metastasis to my left under arm lymph nodes.10 of the 12 biopsied were cancer.My oncologist said he was going to buy me around a year to live,even with the aggressive chemo and radiation treatment. Well none of the medical professionals understood why I was/am still alive now 10 years later,and I have no evidence of disease.Well Doctor/God decided to show who controls my destiny/journey.My cup of God's blessings is not half empty or half full, but is full full overflowing with blessings.I pray you will have a healthy and Happy New Year. Amen. God speed.Keep up the fight.

[Bubba_6]

Thank you so very much for lifting me up!😊

[sociallisa]

Definitely sounds like you are going through a lot in a short time. You will take care of yourself- body and emotionally. Both are factors in successful recovery. Be accepting of help- it will ease the process- and you need a break now. So get informed, try to find time everyday to enjoy something- and know that others are rooting for you to get better as quickly as possible.

[Vickirose42]

I'm so sorry for your loss and to hear of your recent diagnosis. The one thing I can say from my experience is take it one step st a time and one day at a time. Make a list of questions for the doctor so when you go you can stay in track. If you can have someone with you at these initial appointments, that would be great. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you begin to go through this.

[Bubba_6 in reply to Vickirose42]

God bless you all!

[Suzieqat62]

Hi I just got off the phone with the American Cancer Society in my search for some support and help finding doctors and they told me of a program they have that is called reach to recovery that will pair you with a volunteer who has gone thru the same type diagnosis to help answer questions and give you support either in person or by phone that lives near you and knows the programs around you.Perhaps this would make thing a little easier.It takes about a week to match you up.The program is called Reach to Recovery you can call the ACS at 1-800-227-2345 and they can tell you about the program and if your interested they send the request in and have a volunteer contact you.