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After 28 years of marriage and hardly any sex my desire for it is gone. How can I get it back? I’m divorced now with a wonderful woman who loves sex with me but I’m having difficulty.

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We have really no limitations. She was deprived as well but opened up like crazy now. Sex life is amazing it’s just me. She is 36 I’m 53. No biggie but I wish desire to be intimate was there. I just wondered if I’m lacking something or thyroid or something. Don’t know

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Yes for Ed but don’t need that anymore. It’s just the desire for it now I’m dealing with

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No

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Probably

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There can be many factors in low libido in men. As RT mentioned, there are some medical investigations that can be performed , but the detection rate of issues like thyroid, low testosterone etc is low. Other factors like depression, anxiety, stress can often cause it. It can also be a side effect of medication. If you like in the UK, sexual health clinics often have a psychosexual team linked to them , but they do have long waiting times.

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