The pain can be absolutely intolerable,. and I know when my sister's first baby was still born, it was a nightmare. Please do what you need to do. I will be praying and sending good thoughts your way. I am so sorry and so sad that this has happened to your family. We never know why sometimes these things happen. So, so sorry. (((((hugs))))) to you and everyone there. I know how smothering a time like this can be. You wnat to help as much as you can while you are grieving, and fix everything. make sure you take care of yourself, too, so you have more energy for everyone, which you will need for a long time to come. xoxoxo Words are not enough, and I feel pretty inadequate right now.
My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. My sister lost her only child some time ago, and more even than the pain of losing my precious niece was the pain of coping with the devastation of my sister. there are no trite answers. I used to say to my sister, 'we will get through this', as there is no way round it but through it. Just stick together as much as you can and recognize that we all grieve in different ways at different times and you will be bound to act irrationally sometimes. But just be there for one another. If you can't pray for yourselves be assured that others will pray for you, and even if you don't believe, it can make a difference.
So sorry to hear of your terrible loss, having watched my brother experience the same thing I know how devestating it can be for the whole family. My thoughts are with you all, and I can only say that you will all be able to move on eventually if you support each other although your beautiful grandson will always be with you. x
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