dad has late stage CBD and is 81. He is still very much there, his memory and understanding of what is going on is not affected. Everything else is in a terrible decline.
He has in the past few months had a lot of neuropathic pain - shoulders, arms, legs. I only realised to what extent before Xmas when an advanced nurse practitioner attended for a recurrent UTI - she moved his arm, I could see the pain and she then asked where his pain was at out of 10 ….7
it’s taken a lot to get him to take neuropathic pain meds (8 paracetamol a day plus codine) doesn’t touch it. He’s turned down meds previously because he doesn’t want to have an altered state mentally (I think he clings onto this bit if life) however has now started gabapentin.
We’re sat at the CHC assessment last week and the nurse and social worker both commented on dad being stoic. He doesn’t complain at all yet when asked his pain was at 6 and it is constant.
I find that very upsetting as you need to push him to get the “real” how is he, he doesn’t want to trouble anyone.I hate that he suffers so much.
He has one dose in the morning and one in the evening which has helped him get a better nights sleep however he has constant pain in the day and we know this will get worse with disease progression. His concern which has been present for a long time is he doesn’t want to be drugged out of his eyeballs (not sure how best to explain that).
What are people’s experiences with drugs like Gabapentin as I do feel he needs something at lunchtime vs being in this constant pain - do you find people are still "with it" even if they have a dose in the day?
He is also now on an SSRI to help with his mental health which is really bad as well