He is better but they have removed all meds! They were talking about a discharge plan yesterday! He didn't get worse. They want his bed and it's the weekend? My daughter thinks it's the kindest thing to do. I never had a chance to ask my son. I am just in shock. Off to the hospital now.
Marie x
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I found a card that sent me to tears...but also reassured me that I a may be doing the right thing...I hope it helps you Marie ( my husband was discharged from the hospital to come home for his last days as well....He's not doing really well, but he's alive and I'm glad he's home....
STRENGTH is letting go when you want to hold on
COURAGE is moving on, when you fear what is ahead
WISDOM is listening, when you want to be heard
card by Phyllis Arnett
Lord give us Strength , Courage and Wisdom in this time of great need. Give us comfort when we seem to fall from the "stabiility" that we had even with PSP hanging around.....help us know what to do ....Amen
Marie it will be OK. Just be there. Don't have to try and make him better. Be in the moment . Praying for peace for you both. Home is where we are most comfortable.
That was lovely Noella, I so need to hear that....I want to make B better well at least as well as he was before pneumonia.....I keep thinking that I need to get him an xray see if there is anything we can do for his lungs....some form of respritory therapy.....though by now .....Instead I just sit and try to make snappy conversation to him as I read him the morning news....My own headlines read, "have I done all that I can ?" am I just letting him die? and what if I could give him a couple more months on this earth ...to what degree of quality.....
Anyway Noella as much as I might say it ....I need to hear it too I don't have to make him better I just have to make him comfortable.....
Hugs and prayers. It is hard to let go. We have to let go in order for our loved ones to have permission to transition to the next life. God give you peace and strength.
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