Hello everyone so my ? Is how do you deal with a husband that has two twins boys and one lil girl by same woman.

[Lazybone73]

So my issues is how do you deal with a husband that like to txt his baby mama ok it's like they are in a relationship but he says he dont care about her but then you back doe and say you still have love for her I'm confused then you have private conversations with her never tell me about any of the conversations they have then he has been acting differently he's not the same man I fell in love with it's like he's focus more on using the kids to keep up with her and just forgetting about poor oh me I feel lift out I dont know what they conversations be about one min it's about this dude she's dating then next thing they sharing mutual feelings towards each other behind they kids its killing me inside to be receiving this kind if neglect from him and he's to blind by his own ways he see no wrong in what he's doing....I dont know what to do any more I give him what he wants but I can't get what I want he's not pleasing me like i want him to and it hurts...

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I’ve not had experience with this I separated from my kids dad 6 years ago and we don’t really talk much I feel it’s best now we don’t but at the start I would have liked to be able to have been civil for the kids but he was just angry so it never panned out and the kids rarely see him and is a crappy dad. I think it’s great when dads do they’re bit have their kids half the week etc and can get on with Mam. But I think he should be just thinking of his relationship with his kids keeping it civil and not involving himself with his ex too much I wouldn’t like it either if he’s getting too pally you’re his wife now.

[Joey89]

I’m in a blended family and it is really hard. When my hubbys son’s mom was around he would talk to her but I knew everything that was going on. I would never accept private conversations like that ever it’s not only wrong it’s disrespectful towards you and very shady. The conversations and be civil with out over stepping you and your marriage but I personally don’t feel like the conversations need to be on going besides about the kids and you should be able to hear about them not it being hidden. I would have a conversation with him and tell him how you feel but just remember to be like I’m glad you guys can be Civilized for the kids but I’m also feeling like my feelings and our marriage is being pushed aside of your private conversations or something like that but also say I feel because as soon as you say your making me or what ever that’s probably when he will feel attacked in the conversations so any time I’ve had serious conversations with my hubby I constantly said I feel this I feel that