Has anyone else’s partner just not been interested?

[Lauren95]

Abit tmi but I had a baby 4 weeks ago me and my partner have already had sex (using protection) and recently its been me that’s asking and trying and him saying no even though his normally really sexual and we have the same high sex drive but his been watching porn while basically refusing to have sex with me which has resulted in me feeling completely utterly rubbish about myself now if his partner is here asking and trying and his saying no but can watch porn what’s wrong with me I don’t think he realises how upset this has made me either 😔😔😔

[Sisi14]

Aw hunni I’m so sorry you’re feeling like this and he is not making no effort to make you feel wanted. Have you expressed how he’s making you feel Hunni as of course your going to feel unwanted by his actions plus your hormones too. I hope he can speak to you as this has made you feel upset. Xx

[Lauren95 in reply to Sisi14]

I’ve told him I don’t feel like he wants me or loves me etc and he just laughs and thinks I’m messing around just feel like I’m on my own sometimes xxx

[Sisi14 in reply to Lauren95]

Well him laughing is immature hun , work on yourself and confidence and concentrate on you and little one it’s him that’s missing out.

Is this a new thing with the porn or did he used to watch it before having the baby. Xx

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He might be a little scared of how it will feel as you’ve just gave birth I know I was scared what it would feel like for both of us like what if it’s too slack. Maybe ask him, men are useless sometimes at communicating as they make you feel the opposite to how they think they it’ll make u feel. Don’t know how you’d feel about joining in or helping him out when he’s watching porn it might reassure him your ready. Take it slow