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Hi everyone.

So very scared , had a very bad bowel movement & lost some fresh blood. Not much but enough to scare the crap out of me.

I can’t deal with another loss.

I called the midwife & she has said to call the GP.

So I have & waiting on a call.

Please pray for my baby to be okay ❤️❤️❤️ as I will you xoxo

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Oh Jess

How scary for you. I hope you hear soon and all your fears are put to rest.

Xxx

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Thank you.

I was hoping for an easy pregnancy 🤦🏽‍♀️

I’ve got a scan tomorrow & I hope my baby is okay 🤞🏻 xoxo

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You have to wait until tomorrow??

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Yeah my pregnancy unit is only open mornings. My mum & hubby are coming with me. xoxo

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I hope you can get your mind off it somehow today. Feet up and girly box sets xxx

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WeeMrsH

I’m sure all is okay Jess and maybe it’s a symptom of constipation/irritating the cervix, I had that a couple times in early stages. Also I think I replied letting you know my experience with major bleeding, in your previous bleed you had - have a look and hopefully that provides some reassurance.

Hugs. I know it’s very scary.

How far along are you and how long till your 12 week scan? xx

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Thank you.

I’ve heard of lots of ladies bleeding at this point & being okay. So scary.

I’m 10 weeks.

My scan is tomorrow i am terrified xoxo

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cryst4l

Aw Jess try and stay positive. Its going to.be ok. Will pray for you. Sending you lots of love xx

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Thank you.

I think if it is a miscarriage it’ll continue & get heavier with lots of pain.

My scan is tomorrow & I’m so scared. Xoxo

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Is this your first scan? Could you go and e today and go to epu for an emergency scan? Xx

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Yes, I was offered scan at 7 weeks for the spotting @6.5 but declined it. I’m 10 weeks. This pregnancy has been far from easy but hope as bleeding has stopped I haven’t lost the baby. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻My chemical pregnancy continued with heavier bleeding xoxo

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Hope you are ok Jess and all goes ok tomorrow try to stay positive.

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Thank you.

I hope it was a blip, it hasn’t happened since 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻xoxo

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That sounds positive if it was just a one off and stopped my cousin went a few weeks back and they said it was her cervix she hasn’t had a smear for a while and there’s something but baby is fine and will get it checked out properly after the birth.

In sure all will be ok I have everything crossed for you. Hopefully just a little blip from your bowel movement. Please let us know how you are. Big hugs xxx

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Thank you.

That’s what the midwife & everyone else thinks-the bleeding was small amount & has stopped. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 I think if it was a miscarriage it would continue ( did last time at 4.5 weeks) Hopefully the scan will put my mind at rest xoxo

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Masha111

You need to be strong for both of you. Glad you have got in touch with health professionals to put your mind at rest.

I am praying for you and baby 🤞🤲

Like the others have said its prob from the constipation. You will be ok once the doc confirms you have nothing to worry about. Were u in any pain when opening bowels?

Sending lots of hugs and love your way and thinking of you. Xxx

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Thank you.

I have spoken to the midwife & she is fairly sure I’ll be okay, as it wasn’t heavy & I was not cramping. It’s stopped thank god! Probably was bowels.🤞🏻From my last experience of a miscarriage it continued & was heavy & extremely painful. The GP has booked me to have a scan tomorrow maybe it’s worked out for the best, been anxiously waiting for our scan, I don’t think I’ll rest until I know the baby is fine regardless of this xoxo

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Ok thanks for the update. I hope tonight does not drag out for you and that it goes quick so u can have peace of mind following the scan. This is your time i feel it x (God willing) x

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E_05

Keeping everything crossed for you, hope you hear from the Dr soon xx

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Thank you. My scan is tomorrow & the bleeding has stopped thank goodness 🤞🏻🤞🏻 this journey is not easy xoxo

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Glad the bleeding has stopped, hopefully your scan tomorrow gives you the re assurance you need although I know the worrying never stops xx

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ALLY81

Hopefully all will be ok and you'll get to see the baby early! everything crossed for you 😘 xxx

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Thank you.

It’s one way to get a scan early! The bleeding has stopped so hopefully it’s okay 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻xoxo

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jupiter1234

Glad to hear you have a scan tomorrow that will hopefully give you reassurance. Maybe the bowel movement just upset everything xx

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Thank you.

It hasn’t happened since the bowel movement so 🤞🏻that is what caused it & hope baby is fine 🤞🏻Be relieved to hear that the baby is fine, regardless of the bleeding I needed to hear that for sometime, my anxiety has not been good with this pregnancy xoxo

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I was completely the same first pregnancy ended in early miscarriage so with second pregnancy I was awful had so many scans. Sounds very positive that bleeding has stopped xx

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destiny121

Ohh no how scary praying lil baba is okay xxx

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Thank you so much. The bleeding has stopped 🤞🏻 baby is okay. Hopefully the scan will put my mind at ease once & for all xoxo

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That’s great news and hope all is well with your scan... I’ve got my 20

Week scan this week plus my meeting with the diabetic nurse tomorrow so a hectic one... never easy is it 😊

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Never easy or straightforward! Hopefully tomorrow will give us reassurance. 🤞🏻 xoxo

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kt_11

Really hope all is well Jess. The one and only time I had any fresh bleeding during my pregnancy was on the morning of my 7 week viability scan (before it). Everything was fine on the scan and it never happened again. I had to go alone to the appointment and I do remember that feeling of absolute terror on my way there. Hope it’s a similar situation for you and it’s just one of those things xx

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Thank you.

Hearing these stories really help.❤️ the bleeding has stopped 🤞🏻 that is a good sign.xoxo

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Binky1983

Got my fingers crossed for you. it was probably just because of your bowel movement. Was it definitely from the front? Is there a chance you have piles? I’ve had them before I get bright red blood when I wipe at times.

I hope your gp is able to give you some advice.

Focus on the fact you have your scan tomorrow too. I hope the bleeding eases off and you get good news at the scan. Xx

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Thank you.

That is interesting, it hasn’t happened since the bowel movement definitely think it’s connected. Luckily I have had no pain since which the midwife says is good. But I think the scan will finally put my mind at ease. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 xoxo

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Capps8

Crossing everything for you Jess xxx

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Thank you so much xoxo

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misswinky34

I was going to ask about piles too, I had a bleed at 12 weeks I was sure from front but it was actually from the back from straining x

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Thank you.

It’s great to hear others go through similar & be okay. I’m sure it’s connected as it hasn’t happened since the bowel movement & I’m sure if this was a miscarriage it would continue. My early miscarriage did. Im glad to have the scan just to put my mind at rest completely xoxo

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Kempton

Just try to remain positive. I had a little bit of red spotting and some horrible bowel movements at the start. I think it was a surge in hormones actually, like a opposite end version of morning sickness as that's when I really started feeling pregnant.

Hope everything is ok!

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Thank you. It’s reassuring to hear others survive bleeding episodes. ❤️It’s not happened since the bowel movement. 🤞🏻xoxo

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You'll have to let us all know tomorrow! I'm sure a lot of people will be thinking about you :)

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Penders

Oh Hun how frustrating and worrying. Hopefully it was just the straining of bowl movement and nothing more. Good luck with your scan tomorrow. Sending hugs xxx

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Thank you.

It hasn’t happened since so hopefully that is what it was 🤞🏻xoxo

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Anya80

Hi Jess, I’ll be having my thoughts with you and i hope your little one is doing just fine! Lets be hopeful you have gone this far xx

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Thank you.

It’s not happened since so I hope the bowel was responsible for the bleeding. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 if it was a miscarriage I’m sure it would continue xoxo

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Unknown8

I doubt it would be anything sorry about hun, I suffered with IBS before during and still after having my little one, lost blood mucus and all sorts! I’ve had 3 terminations and 4 miscarriages due to circumstances! After our 8th pregamacy all was well apart from having an emergency c section due to a few complications, I highly doubt anything’s wronf

Huh xx

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