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Lost my little boy at 38 weeks...due to something that said they lost fatal heart beat..

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Am a sickle patient and i had crisis due to that I was admitted at the hospital I felt should have removed the earlier but they didn't.....how and on top I had to had surgery at the end of the day....how long should I wait until I can start trying again??

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Cavendis

l am so sorry for your loss l miscarried at week 8 it was devastating l cant imagine your pain :(( l hope next time we can be healthy pregnant with healthy babies xx

Doctor said me to wait one period to try again for a baby but you should ask your doctor about it because it can be different with everyone

Hugs hun l will pray for you xx

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Adjoa in reply toCavendis

Thanks dear...my doctor said I should six months so I can start trying again...

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Finally_Mum

Dear Adjoa... I am so so sorry for your loss... I lost my baby boy at 24 weeks and it hurts me every day. He would have been 3 now and there's not a day or moment that goes by that I don't think of him. He was my first baby and I was convinced after that I wasn't going to be a mother... before him I had two miscarriages at 8 and 9 weeks, and ectopic pregnancy at 13 weeks. I had no idea I was ever going to be a mum. The Drs told me 3 months after Ethan, that I could try again, and without thinking of it because I was so convinced it wouldn't happen my partner and I just started having sex once we were allowed to - at 3 months - and I got pregnant straight away! Indiana is my beautiful little girl, she is now 2 years old and such a happy, loving, clever little princess... my angel, my light, my joy. I know it's hard, but listen to your Dr and allow yourself to heal - whether hey say 3 months or 6 months, just go with what they say and listen to their advice as every case and every person is different. I am thinking of you, and wish you all the luck and happiness in the world for your future and your family. Big hugs xxx

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Adjoa in reply toFinally_Mum

Thanks so much he was my first too...am glad to her such words from you..

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Finally_Mum in reply toAdjoa

Please let me know how you get on and I am here for you any time if you need any more support throughout this tough journey you are on... it will be hard but you will get there... xx

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Adjoa in reply toFinally_Mum

I will hun ..xoxo

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