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what was the care like?

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Lyndsaytw79

Have you done a test yet?

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Bluelady-sing in reply to Lyndsaytw79

No not due on yet

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Lyndsaytw79 in reply to Bluelady-sing

When are you due on?

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Bluelady-sing in reply to Lyndsaytw79

Sunday so ill test on Monday

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Lyndsaytw79 in reply to Bluelady-sing

Okay, let us know

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roxannacar in reply to Lyndsaytw79

I'm very curious now! Getting out the popcorn!

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Lyndsaytw79 in reply to roxannacar

I don’t think there’s a pregnancy

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roxannacar in reply to Lyndsaytw79

I get the same feeling

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jenna01 in reply to roxannacar

The suspense is killing me though!

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Bluelady-sing in reply to Lyndsaytw79

sorry no pregnancy

Instead of posting lots of random questions before you even know if you're pregnant why don't you just have a good read of the posts on this site and do some research on the NHS website. People are happy to help but are going to start losing patience if they know your back story. I'm sorry if that comes across as harsh but it seems like people have tried to help you in the past and you haven't taken much notice.

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Yep random questions which seem to repeat themselves. Maybe less typing and more reading 📖

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Lyndsaytw79 in reply to roxannacar

Plus it’s like saying how long is a piece of string, it totally depends on the individual midwife so it’s impossible to gauge what care you would receive based on others peoples experiences.

You had sex Easter weekend so you can test now. Get a test and put yourself out of misery.

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Bluelady-sing

I am not due on yet

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Bluelady-sing

sorry guys I came on today!! sorry I feel a little sad

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roxannacar in reply to Bluelady-sing

Surely that makes your situation less complicated with your ex

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Lyndsaytw79 in reply to Bluelady-sing

I’m sorry that you feel sad but I think perhaps you’d be better off with someone who wants the same.

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Bluelady-sing

I am thinking hard. I think I might want to try baby at 41 with PCOS what is my chances percentage wise

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roxannacar in reply to Bluelady-sing

How long is a piece of string? The only way to know is to try. Your chances get lower with advancing age and with pcos ...

what I find strange in that you have been posting re baby related stuff for several months, wanting a baby etc... but you panicked when you had unprotected sex 2 weeks ago and now you seem to want a baby again. Are you sure you know what you want? I understand that as a woman you start panicking when you think time is running out... but once you have a child it is for life, can't return them.

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Bluelady-sing

I am fully aware Roxannacar

If I was you and wanted a child regardless of being married or even in a relationship at 41 without pcos I go for it as time is running out, I feel the pressure at 38 and I’ve got 2 kids already.

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Bluelady-sing

Thanks Gcw - I shall let you know how it goes