Am I pregnant?

[OhLordValerie]

I have extremely irregular periods to the point that I can go months without or have two in one month. But I've had lower back pain, increased discharge, sore breasts, nausea, decreased appetite, and more. It's been two weeks and I can't get a pregnancy test..what do I do?

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

You could go to a family planning clinic or your gp they'll do a test xx

[roxannacar]

Can I ask why you can't get a pregnancy test? You can get them at any supermarket and some are fairly cheap

[OhLordValerie in reply to roxannacar]

I'm 16 and my mom can't know I think I'm pregnant. If I'm not I don't want her mad at me for having the risk. She DOES know, however, that I am sexually active and of course I would tell her if I am. (and in case anyone is concerned, I don't believe in abortion so, if I am, the baby is not in danger and I will be keeping them in a kind loving home)

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to OhLordValerie]

Hun, you can go to your local chemist supermarket they are cheap enough and just test the sooner you know the better that way if you are you can get the support you need. Or like I said go to your local family planning clinic. If you was my daughter I'd want to know what your going through hun and I'd be there for you naturally, it would be a, shock but if your mum knows your sexually active then I don't think there is, need to keep it from her. She could go get you one then xx

[OhLordValerie in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Thank you!!

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to OhLordValerie]

Your welcome. Hope everything works out xx

[claire16c]

Just go to the supermarket. In the mean time it’s alsk important to buy some folic acid to take incase you are pregnant. And look at getting some birth control x