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Can someone else give me advice!!

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i am new here ,I went and seen my gynecologist today for a "check up" and when I asked him some serious questions he didn't give me very serious answers.

my boyfriend and i have been having unprotected sex for almost three years and i have not yet gotten pregnant. when i asked the dr if there could potentially be something wrong with me as i have had not the best health record he asked me if i reach orgasm every time when we have sex??

Now i have had 4 bartholin cysts that have not been so pleasant and i don't know if that could cause any problems in my conceiving. if anyone has advice please feel free to tell me so.

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claire16c

That is really weird for him to ask that I think you need to see a different dr

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firesprite85

I would definitely be asking for a new doctor huni xx

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roxannacar

If you have had regular sex for e3 years unprotected, and are looking to get pregnant it's worth getting some investigations. Orgasms are not what get you pregnant and you can get pregnant without.

The bartholins glands are unlikely to affect your fertility as they are an external thing not related to how fertility works... However 3 years is a long time.

I would see your gp if UK based or a different obgyn

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Kattilcox in reply toroxannacar

My pap cam back abnormal and i just had another no results yet ....i just dont understand ..my boyfriend has six kids so i dont think he would be the problem

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roxannacar in reply toKattilcox

Whats a pap cam? A cervical pap smear? If so thats not really related to fertility issues, its to check for cervical cells/HPV virus

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Kattilcox in reply toroxannacar

I ment pap test

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