Can I get pregnant from doing this ?!

[Monkeymoney]

I’ve been practicing unprotected sex and I wanted to know if I can get pregnant if we had sex and he pulled out and ejaculated and went again for another round without wiping or urinating to remove the remaining sperm ?

[Seb9]

Yep absolutely, you could get pregnant doing this. You don't practice unsafe sex, you practice safe sex. Haven't sex without protection is just having sex and that's the way babies are made. If you want to avoid getting pregnant you'll need to get the the morning after pill if you're within the time frame. I'd also suggest that you speak to your GP about what protection to use and that's right for you if you don't want to get pregnant or get sexually transmitted diseases. Good luck.

[Monkeymoney in reply to Seb9]

So I probably am pregnant right ?

[Seb9 in reply to Monkeymoney]

If you've had unprotected sex, and you're ovulating and the sperm meets the egg then you could well be pregnant. It's not an exact science though. People try to get pregnant for months and aren't always successful so you might not be pregnant.

If you've missed the window to take the morning after pill then all you can do is wait and see if you miss your period. If you miss your period then take a pregnancy test and that's the only way you'll know if you've got pregnant or not. I'd still recommend you speak to a doctor or sexual health clinic to talk about contraception and practicing safe sex before you have sex again as whether you're pregnant or not pregnant, unprotected sex can also pass on sexually transmitted diseases and if you've not fallen pregnant in this occasion doesn't mean it couldn't happen next time. Good luck

[Monkeymoney in reply to Seb9]

So my period is due next week Thursday and my breasts usually get sore the week of my period but my breasts started becoming sore on Sunday. I have also need to use the toilet much more, I’ll feel really desperate but only a little will come out. I’ve also been very gassy and been have light cramps and lower back ache. Do you think this could be a sign of pregnancy?

[Seb9 in reply to Monkeymoney]

I'm not able to tell you that, could be symptoms your period is coming, could be pregnancy. If you need to wee and can't it sounds more like a urinary tract infection or cystitis. I didn't have any symptoms that I was pregnant except missing periods so going on symptoms is not a reliable method to diagnose pregnancy. If you still have issues peeing I would contact your GP to get checked over and get some pregnancy tests if your period doesn't arrive. Good luck

[cmbxm]

Yes, and that’s not practicing unprotected sex, that’s sex. The only difference is safe sex and that’s using a condom or barrier to protect yourself and your sexual partner from the risk of STIs and pregnancy. If you don’t want to make a baby, don’t risk it or practice and please speak to a clinic or doctor about the morning after pill and advice on going on proper contraception like the pill or patch. Wiping or urinating sperm off isn’t a contraception, as sperm can still find a way in if they want in precum or just by sticking around. Like Seb9 said, this is how you get STIs, it doesn’t matter that he didn’t cum directly in you, STIs can still be spread through contact, so if you have any concerns over who your partner is or if you’ve changed partners recently please talk to a clinic or doctor because STIs are no joke and can have long term serious effects.

[Monkeymoney in reply to cmbxm]

So I probably am pregnant right ?

[cmbxm in reply to Monkeymoney]

Very very slim chance as a couple that has proper sex every month during a woman’s fertile window only have a 30% chance of conceiving, but it’s happened in the past to women who’ve got pregnant through sexual contact alone, but it’s rare xx

[Monkeymoney in reply to cmbxm]

So my period is due next week Thursday and my breasts usually get sore the week of my period but my breasts started becoming sore on Sunday. I have also need to use the toilet much more, I’ll feel really desperate but only a little will come out. I’ve also been very gassy and been have light cramps and lower back ache. Do you think this could be a sign of pregnancy?

[cmbxm in reply to Monkeymoney]

I had all of these before I was due on my period, its called PMS. PMS and pregnancy symptoms are very very similar, shockingly I found I had no PMS or period symptoms the month I found out I was pregnant. Don’t start symptom spotting cos you’ll drive yourself crazy analysing every twinge and cramp, just wait til next week, if you’re already feeling stressed about it that could even delay your period, best bet is to take a test Friday morning if your period hasn’t arrived and not stress until then x

[Prettygurrly]

Just to say, the morning after pill is only 86% effective when taken within the time frame so it's not great to use it as some sort of contraception.

[Monkeymoney in reply to Prettygurrly]

So I probably am pregnant right ?

[Ema1234]

Look, you need to educate yourself on safe sex if you don't want to be pregnant. Of course you can get pregnant this way. It isn't an effective method as even pre cum can get you pregnant. This doesn't mean you are pregnant though. Again, the symptoms you are describing sound like a UTI. Take a pregnancy test and prehaps research the risks you are taking. Best wishes