If you're irregular a calendar will probably not help, as you can't calculate when you're going to ovulate, as that assumes regular cycles. I would keep track of your periods, but you might need ovulation tests to see when you're ovulating. However if you've only just started trying I'd say just take it easy, and enjoy it.
I can definitely recommend acupuncture for fertility. I always had regular periods until my first miscarriage then it was constant PMS which I never had before. It sorted out my mood and anxiety and also increased my luteal phase from 10 days to 14! Which is very important for implantation.
Good luck and try to get your husband to relax stress is no good for baby making. Xx
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