Judy42lover

[Judylover]

I was pregnant and I lost my baby this is the third time this has happened and I can't get an answer to why this keeps on happening to me it comes very heavy and very very thick looks like tissues and dark at first now it's red but still thick by the way it's just happened yesterday.

[roxannacar]

I'm sorry for your loss. I may be asking th obvious us but have you seen your GP/ hospital. After 3 miscarriages you should definitely be investigated.

[Judylover in reply to roxannacar]

No I haven't only because my GOP always says there's nothing they can do and it's because it wasn't developing and last time it actually happened right before I went to the hospital and the Dr said yes your pregnant but you might be loosing the baby cause I was bleeding heavy and I lost right it in the hospital.

[roxannacar in reply to Judylover]

There's not much that can be done to save the baby when you are miscarring, that's true, but there are certain conditions that can predispose to having multiple miscarriages, hence why you should be investigated (not whilst you're pregnant). They would check for things like fibroids and certain medical conditions eg lupus. Sometimes no cause can be found. But they might find that ivf is something that might help after they investigate. (Although NHS will only offer this till age 39). If you haven't had investigations asked to be referred for investigation of multiple miscarriage.

There's a lot if info on miscarriageassociation.org....

[Judylover]

Thank you so much Roxannacar I went to GOP but they're said only one thing they're able to do is to do a pregnancy test to check if I'm still pregnant nothing else because it would only be three weeks and It's too early for an ultrasound weird because I already lost the baby. I believed there's no Doctor that cares about a maried couple that wants a child for them to help them as much as possible especially in Fl in Ny any Dr would of help you not Fl maybe if I had more money. One day I will give my testimony how God can do what Dr's thinks is impossible , I believe God will give us a child in 2017!

[roxannacar in reply to Judylover]

I'm sorry about the situation you're in. Did you already have a positive test at 3 weeks cuz that's very early? I live in the U.K. So the system here is very different as it's not insurance dependent.

[Judylover]

Yes I tested positive and next day I had the miscarriage

[Hopeful15]

Hi Judy lover. My husband and I tried for ten years. We saw specialists in Spain and UK who all said everything was normal...they blamed our lifestyle. But it was only after I had an MRI scan that the few small fibroids that the gynaecologists consistently said weren't the issue were discovered to be the culprits. The MRI showed upwards of fifteen fybroids, and two so large on the posterior wall that it would be impossible for any fertilised egg to find purchase. This was after 10 years of suffering. It turns out that every late heavy and painful period was probably a miscarriage. It took two major abdominable surgeries to clear the fibroids and cure most of the resultant adhesions (the back of my womb is now attached to my lower bowel) but 4 months after the last op I fell pregnant. The pregnancy was painful - the adhesions essentially had to rip apart as my womb grew, but at the end of it I was totally cured and holding an 8lb baby boy. 17 months later I fell pregnant again...both natural. We'd both been fertile all along. It just took ages to find a fabulous consultant who listened to what we were saying and knew something wasn't quite right. Good luck. I hope you find your answer soon. Xxx

[Judylover]

Oh thank you I will definitely find out more I'm very happy for you God bless you