Pain in my stomach and by my V' lines after sexual intercourse

[Nicoleey]

Hello ladies,

Just wondering if anyone could shine a lil light on this problem. I have just had sex with my partner, I had a miscarriage in November 2015. I let my body repair itself so it cannot be nothing to do with the miscarriage surely? I just had sex and after sex I had really sharp excruciating pains in my stomach and by my vLine bones.. I felt really sick too. I had irregular periods from November 2015 till 2016.. Not had my period in January 2016 not sure if the pains because I could be pregnant or?... Need ideas to know what could be causing the pains after sex and feeling sick.

Thankyou ladies.

[Becks-734]

i too had a miscarriage in July last year and it took just over 3 months before my body healed properly, have you spoken to your GP about this?

i had the pains down below and in my stomach too.

in terms of maybe being pregnant. . . .i fell pregnant in the September (i am almost 20 weeks now), we are highly fertile for up to three months after a miscarriage, as your body acts as if you have actually given birth, so fertile levels are through the roof.

it may well be possible that youre pregnant again tho hun, have you tried doing a test?

if you want to chat, then im here, let me know how you are x

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Thanks for the reply chick. I have not seen my gp yet thinking of booking an appointment soon to speak about it but, just seeing if the problem continues.. Yes, we are most fertile after miscarriage. There is a high possibility of me being pregnant. Just scared because, of going through a miscarriage and finding out at my scan that the baby stopped developing.

Thankyou chick and same goes x

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

i know exactly how you feel hun, i was terrified when i found out i was pregnant again, i have had a few bleeds, one of which was a big heavy one and i had to go to hospital, but thankfully all was ok and they put it down to stress, ive got my 20 week scan on thursday, im so chewed up over it, i just need to know my babys healthy :/

please let me know how you get on, when you go to your GP and do a test - i will be thinking of you xx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Oh gosh I'm glad everything is going all good for you chick, keeping my fingers crossed for you and the lil one. I still have not had my period this month and only was November when I miscarried.. If I don't have my period tonight or tomorrow then I'm pretty sure 110% that I will not get one as mine always last a week the full 7 days. Try not to worry or stress out too much I'm sure your lil one will be fine Hun goodluck for your scan :-)!

I will do, thanks again chick for the reply xxx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

when were u due on hun? xxx

thanks for god luck wishes they are much appreciated xxx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Hello again chick,

I was due 18th January and i always have 7 days but not this month so scared xxx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

its probs still too soon to do a test, i didnt get a positive until i was 2 weeks late, i really do wish u good luck hun, really hope you are and all goes well xxx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Probably is still too soon, I have a lot of white discharge aswell now... No period.

I'm not with the dad if I am because, broke up before my period was due but it would be his and thanks chick xxx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

(white discharge is a sign like!)

how do you feel about that?

do you want to talk about it?

how do you think he will be if you are pregnant hun xx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

White discharge is a sign of a lot of other things aswell and not sure tbh a child is what I wanted and so did he but, we gone through a rough patch but I'm not sure I will be happy for myself not for anyone else. It's then his choice if he wants to take responsibility chick xxx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

i dont know whats happened, but you never know hun finding out hes gonna be a dad might change the way he feels.

have u bought some tests ready to use? xx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Maybe it might change the way he feels. No not yet I was thinking of buying some or going doctors but don't want to go too early xxx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

yeah i know what you mean, the first three i took were negative i was gutted, i waited another 3 days, then i got a faint positive. another few days later i got a very clear positive.

you will be two weeks late this sunday, so i would say youd be safe to take a test then or maybe book into the docs on monday xx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Will book in doctors Monday morning if nothing happens whilst waiting chick. My periods are irregular since November but haven't had a period at all this month so I therefore, could of been due any time. However, I'm going to choose to wait till Monday so I can book in and find out either way. Thanks flower xxx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

no problem, good luck hun

will be thinking of you xxx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Thankyou chick xxx you too with you and lil one x

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

any luck? xx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Hello Hun, I have not been doctors or done a home test yet but will do one this Friday at home instead of going through all the trauma at the doctors.. Thankyou again. Hope your well xx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

im persuming still no period no?

im ok thanks, had my 20 week scan, ill be 21 weeks tomorrow xx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

No still no period.. But, not had any signs of being pregnant either whether it's because it's early to tell or... All I have had is feeling tired and sick but not being sick or nothing. & aw glad everything is great flower, good luck with little one not long left xxx

[Nicoleey]

I miscarried in November 2015, one period in December and nothing since.. 3/02/16 I went to the toilet and had brown discharge spotting any idea of what this could possibly mean? I am doing test Friday..x

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

if its brown spotting then its old blood xx

[Becks-734 in reply to Becks-734]

it needs to be fresh bright red to be a new period xx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

Ok thankyou xx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

any news? x

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

I have had a period 7 day cycle guess my time will come. Hope you and little one is good xx

[Becks-734 in reply to Nicoleey]

oh hun im sorry, but yes it will, and everything will be prefect, trust me

thanks hun we are both well thanks xx im 22 weeks 2 days now xx

[Nicoleey in reply to Becks-734]

It's ok Hun and the time will come for myself I'm just going to take it easy and plenty of rest from now.. Personally I don't think my body is ready for a baby. Aw Hun time will go fast I'm sure, all the best with yourself and your family chick xx