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I need help like soon as please. I am pregnant but would like to know who dad is as i done a bad thing :( i had sex on the 4th october and t

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and then i took the morning after pill and i had a period i think on the 20th of october till 25th i then had sex with someone else i done a test 18/19th nov and it said i am pregnant what one will be the dad? Thanks

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The second person is more like to be the dad as you had a period and also took the morning after pill after the first but there might be a chance that the first person may be the dad. Good luck with your pregnancy

If you took the morning after pill, it's most likely to be the 2nd mans baby, however the MA pill can fail. The only way you will be 100% is to do a DNA test when the baby is born

I have my 12 week scan tomorrow if it says am 12 weeks would it more likely be the second one? Thanks

I always used the pull method i know this don't work some times but with the 2nd man i kept it in will this make a difference?

Yes it can make it more likely if he ejaculated inside you and seeing as you had a period and took the morning after pill it seems more likely to be the 2nd guy. However, there always will be the chance it is the 1st person. Having your dating scan will help but as already said, a DNA test once the baby arrives will be your only real way to know for sure who has fathered your baby. If I were you, I would tell my partner as he needs to be prepared for the possibility that he may not be the father of your baby and I wouldn't be able to keep this from him and have to tell him out of the blue if he turns out to not be the father x

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Mom2be

Sorry to sound nasty but you asked the same question 2months ago. As other people have said DNA test is the only way to know for sure who the father is.

U need to tell ur oh really and a dating scan will give you rough idea but u need a dna test. .I don't kno why the pull out method is called a method cz its not its ridiculous

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I really hope your partner is the baby's father. Next time take precautions I.e not the 'withdrawal method' lol ive said it before to another post but its one for Jeremy :-\

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blackmadona

mom2b,you don't have to be sorry,you are correct with what you are saying.. some people are taking this forum as a joke,asking some nasty,stupid questions knowing they will get replies from people. Guys remember some people registered here just for fun and ask some irrelevant questions and laugh at you when you answer their rubbish questions. I believe those stupid,nonsense questions just be ignored. we are not here to do a dna for people. if you are old enough to sleep two men ,you should be old/matured enough to know who impregnate you.

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Blackmadona-- you are perfectly right on this one, I was saying the exact thing will I was reading, people needs to act responsible and stop taking these thing for joke. We weren't there when the baby was conceived, hence we wouldn't have a glue as to who the dad is, only she alone can work it out.

in reply toblackmadona

We said Blackmadonna..

:)

i honestly had'to stop myself from answering this question as i didn't want to offend but your answer was / is exactly what I wanted to say.

x

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