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Quick question this has been bugging me for the past few days

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Hi all as most of you are aware I had my son last thursday and he is such a good baby sleeps from 8pm until about 4am and for the padt few days ive felt empty and I feel like I want to have another baby is this natural feeling I didnt have these feelings after my daughter all advise will be helpful

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Megzey

YES you will probably feel like this for about 3 months. Alot of ladies go through it after they have had a baby, I felt like that with both of mine.

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mumofone2009 in reply toMegzey

thank you just feel so emotional as well with it

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Megzey in reply tomumofone2009

Do you find yourself crying for no reason sometimes? I was terrible after my 2nd. I got really paranoid that my husband was going to leave me (even though he would never in a million years) and I just found I couldn't control my emotions. It does where off.

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mumofone2009 in reply toMegzey

Yeah I do it happens I when I see pregnant women too its horrible my midwife is out today so im going to chat with her

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Allyemo1985

Firstly what a fantastic routine 8-4am brilliant.. :-) yes I think most new mums will feel the same, the bump bond has gone and now we share a baby bond with. Our husbands. Completely natural too feel that way.. Wonder what you hubby/partner would say... I know what mine would say.... He'll no ha ha xx

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mumofone2009 in reply toAllyemo1985

Thank you my partner knows how im feeling now as our little girl found me crying in our room and she went and told him x

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ashy2005

Im 36+5 weeks so havent had my wee one yet but my best friend had her baby last week, its her third boy and she has constantly said since having him that she wants another one yet all through her pregnancy this was her last baby.. so its normal to feel this way sometimes.. when i had my little girl i felt down and empty, even tho we spend the whole time looking forward to meeting our babies i think we are left with the empty feeling of where they used to be :( i deff missed being pregnant.. i also discussed my feelings with my midwife which helped :) hope you start to feel better soon xxx

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mumofone2009 in reply toashy2005

I never had this feeling when I had my daughter its so hard my partner said I

Should chat to my midwife tomorrow when I see her. Its so hard I keep feeling my tummy and then I realise and start crying and then I see him in his moses basket and I stop crying and my heart melts

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