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How to be Sick: An Inspired Guide for the Chronically Ill and Their Caregivers –Toni Bernhard

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Just received this book today....

"Toni Bernhard got sick and, to her and her partner's bewilderment, stayed that way. As they faced the confusion, frustration, and despair of a life with sudden limitations, a life that was vastly different from the one they'd thought they'd have together, Toni had to learn how to be sick. In spite of her many physical and energetic restrictions (and sometimes, because of them), Toni learned how to live a life of equanimity, compassion, and joy.

"The world is a university and everyone in it is a teacher. Make sure when you wake up in the morning you go to school." ~ T.D. Jakes

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PMRCanada

Wow....looks to be very inspiring. So often we focus primarily on the “illness/symptoms”, instead of the ripple effect of chronic illness on our mental health, our relationships, our intimacy, and our spirituality. If we can adapt and heal it has positive impact on our abilities and resilience.

This is a “must read” for me.

Thank you once again for making us aware of such wonderful resources....and reading is one activity most of us can do!

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Pollymarierose19

I happen to be reading this book also, Idyllic. It's wonderful! Thanks for suggesting it!

in reply to Pollymarierose19

Ohhh cool, I haven't started it yet. Let us know what you think, as you'' be done before me!

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Joaclp

Another great and inspiring suggestion. We need some examples, role models, to help us cope with any chronic illness. Thank you again. Please write a review when you have read it.

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SheffieldJane

Thanks to our new librarian/ book reviewer! I fancy this one. I love being inspired by other people’s stories

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scats in reply to SheffieldJane

I agree it sounds interesting but you can't call it a review unless she has the book first.

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SheffieldJane in reply to scats

True but I bet she’s right. I sent for it last night. Seeking backbone!

in reply to scats

Hi, I haven't reviewed this one yet... I just received it yesterday! I think Jane was referencing the overview I wrote about "Brave New Medicine: A Doctor’s Unconventional Path to Healing Her Autoimmune Illness" a few days ago.

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Yes you're right she could be. There are an awful lot of books offering advice on coping with illness, I find that most have something useful to offer but I've yet to find one I could stick to myself.

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