don't get me wrong, I have a lovely husband, who has been really good to me, he does most of the housework, cooking, washing etc, I know he really loves me but!!
I do have one bugbear though. why is it whenever I tell him my arm hurts or my leg hurts. His pain is always worse!!!. I might say something like, " my arm is really painful today" to which he will invariably reply. " my knees are killing me " and go on to explain in great detail why and how they are so painful.
Is it a male thing? or just him. it is infuriating, it would be nice, occasionally to just have an acknowledgement that I'm in pain,without it turning into a competition. !!