Hi there, Ive just joined.
Ok here goes.
Im 55 postmeno and had lower abdomen problems for some time, eg bloating etc.
Doc kept saying IBS.
Went for a scan last monday and by wed the hospital were on the phone to me saying I needed to be seen pretty quick , app is for 11th august.
So questions are, can postmeno women have non cancerous ovary problems?
And would I have been seen earlier if they were really concerned?
I cant eat now, probably more due to stress than any condition, any idea's what to try to get appetite back?
Thankyou, from a very worried Pam.
Hi Pam!
It is a very worrying time when you're thinking "is it?/Isn't it?" It may not be cancer, there's a lot of other things that could be going on. Try to think on the bright side, even though you're probably preparing yourself for the "what if" diagnosis.
Have you tried the Ovacome BEATonline symptom tracker? It may be worth doing, even though you only have to wait till Wednesday (yes, I know that will seem like ages to you, but ...) The feeling of loss of appetite could be OC but may well be anxiety, which is quite natural at this time. Don't worry too much, just eat healthy stuff when you feel like it, a glass of wine may help too
Have you had a blood test? There's a test called CA125 that can give the medics a bit more info, but even then, it's not conclusive, just helps to fill in the picture for the medical team. You can get a form for this from your GP or gynae oncology nurse specialist at the hospital, and some hospitals do blood tests through the weekend.
If you do get a cancer diagnosis, can you take someone with you who will help you to remember what they are telling you? It is a shock, even when you're mentally preparing for it.
However, it's not all bad. The treatment today is better than ever, the support you get on this website is superb and it sounds as if you will have an early diagnosis, which is very good.
I'm here to tell the tale after nearly 9 years, three before that were the GP fobbing me off with loads of reasons why I felt like I did. He was so wrong! Once I was diagnosed it felt like I was on a conveyor belt, people looking after me quickly and efficiently. There was no sense of panic once I was in hospital and after I had my op. I got over the op quickly and have been getting better ever since.
However, that's me, and you're worried now. Have a look at some of the stories on here, it should reassure you. There are plenty of false fears. I hope it's like that for you.
However, if it is cancer, there is so much support out there.
Feel free to ask any more questions or just to scream out HELP!
Good luck on Wednesday, let us know how you get on
Love Wendy xx
Thankyou so much for replying Wendy.
I have had blood tests and the CA125 which the doctor said all were in normal range, thats why I wasnt so worried till I had the vaginal scan!
I will look at the symptom thing if I can find it lol.
Thanks again
Pam x