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Waited 18 months, cancelled with 6 days to go.

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I need a hug.

I followed all the rules, isolating hard core, even over my 26th bday on Monday. I've waited 18 months and had it cancelled twice before.

And now, at the final final hurdle... I've lost it again, and with no new date.

Due to terrible communication at a women's private hospital, I was not informed until yesterday that I had a UTI until yesterday, the urine test was nearly two weeks ago and there's no explanation for the delay. As a result, the course of antibiotics finishes the day of surgery, and the NHS have decided to cancel.

I could maybe just about cope with post pone, give a girl at least an idea of how much higher you moved the hoop... But cancel...

I'm in shock and been trying to get hold of my psychiatrist but she's very busy.

I feel so lost and empty.

. I just want a hug.

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Marnie22

Sending you a big gentle hug. I am so sorry you have to deal with all this. I wish I could help. Take care. 🌼

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New_beginning

So sorry BunnyBean, virtual (((( hug)))) x

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Daesin

Oh honey, sending you gentle hugs and a whole lot of love. Continue forward the best you can. There may be a plan you don't see.

When all of this confusion started in my life I felt so blessed to obtain an appointment with the top neuro immunologist in my state. Hours before the appointment I found out that the driver was not coming. This professional transporter failed to consider the time change of where I live versus where the appointment was located.

I can't even begin to explain the consequences & the horrible snowball effect that happened from this missed appointment. I was basically in a dark hole. My physical and mental health declined severely as I continue to be battered around by different specialties. None whom provided help at the time.

When I finally saw the neurologist (9 long months later) he was able to look at everything that had happened. He saw months of labs, multiple MRIs and other imaging/testing as well as reports from over specialists. This agonizing delay in seeing him had actually provided the full picture. He was able to come up with the right diagnosis and we are working toward better health.

I asked him what his opinion would have been at our missed original meeting and he guessed that his diagnosis would have been far different due to the fact that he didn't have all of the data.

You must be so terribly hurt and rightfully angered over this stupid medical error. It is never good to suffer due to another's error. I hope something positive comes from this terrible portion of your adventure. Happy birthday dear. My heart is with you.

Blessings to all.

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