Yesterday I saw my midwife for the first time in my home time as all my care had been up at uni. The midwife I saw followed me to the toilets when I went to do a urine sample and outrightly asked me if my partner hits me.
I'm aware midwifes are trained to pick up on this sort of thing however she had no reason to ask such a question. I don't have bruises and he wasn't controlling in anyway. I feel like now she's going to be really judgmental when I see her, and don't really want to go to my next appointment. Any ideas on how to handle it? Would you's complain or just carry on as normal?
Thanks in advance