Can anyone help? my 3 year old has been out of nappies through the day for almost a year but will not do a poo on the toilet. She will scream until i put a nappy on her when she needs to go. She starts nursery in a few days and im worrying about what will happen if she needs a poo whilst shes there. So far the advice the health visitor has given us hasnt helped. Has anyone experienced the same and how did you help you child overcome thier fears?