Just stopping by thought I would say Hi to all.

[kycmary]

Hope everyone is having the best day they can. I am having some decent days BUT this cold snap we're having in northern Ky is for the pits. I liked the days in the 70's & 80's & a nice breeze. Waking up to 50's is PAINFUL. Going to see about closing up this ordeal. I still have trouble believing he is gone it is just over 4 1/2 months. I think of all the people I know who have lost their mate in the last year & wonder how they are doing. Is it getting any better? I hope for them it is. Because as we all know life goes on nobody stops the world for us. God bless to everyone I love & pray for all. Mary

[NorasMom]

Good to hear from you, Mary! I'll send you some of our heat. I prefer the 50's, and we actually had a few days of it last week.

[Blanketttime1]

just sending you🤗

[AquaZumbaFan]

S ending you big hugs and lots of love! Hubby and I are vacationing, and I went to Kentucky for the first time today because we are right on the border! This is such an amazingly beautiful area! I’m so sorry that things are not letting out for you… One of my very best friends lost her husband several years ago. Unfortunately, she just found that her cancer returned and she may be joining her husband sooner than later.. She just turned 80 on Monday.. believe it or not she is still working full-time in New York City!

[kycmary in reply to AquaZumbaFan]

WOW! 80 & still working full time!! Double WOW!!

[AquaZumbaFan in reply to kycmary]

She is AMAZING!!

[Greentime]

sending hugs. 🤗

[carolek572 CommunityAmbassador]

Nice to hear from you, kycmary ! Sorry to hear about the cold snap that you are experiencing. I am still dealing with 100+ temperatures!

I couldn’t imagine losing my spouse and be able to get over the loss, ever. But I understand that it gets better with time. How much time, I don’t know. I am here for you. 🙏

[whwiechm]

Just had my annual family reunion last Saturday at an outdoor pavilion. Temp in the low 60's and quite windy. Had a good day regardless.

[CatsandCars]

Sorry to hear you're freezing as well as grieving, Mary. You never get over losing a spouse, but for me, life was less painful after two or three years. It took longer before the memories of him being sick stopped holding so much horror, and I could really remember the good times first. But it will happen. Praying for God to comfort you. 🙏🙏🙏

[mrsmike9]

Four and a half months may seem like a long time ago but it really isn't. I just read this and had to find it so I could copy it for you. It happens to be written by a daughter who lost her dad.

Words above grief.

[Tazmanian]

The nice weather will return maybe not till next year but it will be back

[Amore55]

It’s good to hear from you. I was wondering how you are doing. I’m also sending you the hot weather from here! It’s finally supposed to cool down next week. Take care and hugs to you. 🤗🤗

[GreatDanekids]

sending prayers and hugs 🙏🙏🤗🤗

[Mark1499]

God bless you for sharing this, You seem to have a strong spirit in spite of what has happened.,know that your post has made me contemplate how I would handle being without my wife. She’s my best friend. I recently spent 4 days in the hospital. I was in a coma for 2 days. I have rrms and short term memory loss. I took the wrong combination of medication . When I woke up in the hospital she was right by my side. She stayed with me 24/7. She slept on a couch for 4 days ! After I was discharged she stayed by my side. It was 2 days before I slept and she wouldn’t sleep either.. when I first came home, I was bringing fried. I could not operate the remote change the TV channel. I think she was really scared. I was scared, but she was calm and kind in spite of the hell that I had put her through. She’s my best friend. it took a couple of days but I have a 25-year-old son in Tampa, who called and was the only one other than myself that wondered when this would get better or if. He said, they had your brain had to reboot because all of a sudden everything was fine. She would take me to the medicine cabinet because I had no idea what I took or what it was for. She would go over medication with me. Did I know what it was for. It took a little while but coming back. Of being separated from her is awful. You seem to be so strong. I only hope that ever happens to me. I will be as strong as you are. You will be in my prayers and I asked the same.

God bless you!

[kycmary in reply to Mark1499]

Hi Mark sounds like you have a marriage like I had with my hubby, he was my caregiver from 4/94 until he landed in the hospital last March. We were married 4/29/1980, 14 years later I started having vision problems & that summer of 94 is when they said "It is MS". He said "I took you for better or worse not until you got sick", I will never forget that!

Put GOD first your wife second you third. That is what we did. What I'm still trying to do. I know one day I will see him again. Then it is one step at a time. Keep friends that support you around, the others watch!

[Mollyabigail]

I think about you often, Mary. May God strengthen you every day. ❤️🙏