my oh my

[pamgarner]

due to a fall i broke my upper rt arm,of course i am rt handed i will have surgery,lost my balance and trip into my lower kitchen cabinets with my whole body weight,also just found out my husband with heart failure has a leaking vavle that need replaced piles on sometimes....gheezzee......

[kdali]

😱😭 I’m so sorry, for both of you. Please keep us updated if you can 🙏🙏

[twooldcrows]

wow so sorry for your fall and then to get more news about your husband ...hope there is someone around to help you both and be the extra support that you both need ...prayers for both of you ...take care and be safe ....love and prayers for you both...

[DM0329]

🙏🙏🙏

[starlight5]

So sorry about your fall and your husbands health issues. So much stress...

[jimeka]

I am so sorry Pam, I hope and pray that you get it sorted soon, also that your husband gets is valve seen to. Please let us know how you get on, blessings Jimeka 🤗

[Jer29-11]

Ugh, I’m so sorry! Prayers for healing and a a speedy recovery for you and your husband 🙏🏻❤️

[leking1]

I am so sorry! Love and prayers for both of you!

[Comoesta]

Situations such as you have described are very difficult. I am so sorry you had had this happen to you.

Do you have family and can any of them help you on a spread out basis...that means one may help on Monday, another on Wednesday and then another on Friday? Nieces and nephews might help on the weekends?

If you have no family, you may have to reconsider future plants.

I have a similar situation in that my family all live at least 1000 miles from me. The town where I do live is actually too small to be described as a town...it has about 150 people and it is situated in the middle of corn....there is no pharmacy, gas station, little food store like a Handimart, no doctor nor hospitals within 30 miles, and most of the people here are related to each other and all the rest are not considered to be people but "outsiders". The water supply always smells and tastes like bleach. There is ZERO public transportation.

I have lived here 20 years and would give my eye teeth to live near some people I love and enjoy being with.

I know my demise will be without others. The last death here was quite "normal" in that the really nice woman laid on her floor for three days before someone found her and she could get medical attention. She then died shortly thereafter.

Perhaps others who read this have better solutions. I hope so.

[Raingrrl in reply to Comoesta]

Comoesta ...can your family help you relocate closer to them? My last nearby family moved 1200 miles away this past December. Luckily I have some really great neighbors and a couple of friends that aren’t far that I can contact if I need to. It’s still scary since I have a tendency to fall. I can’t imagine how it would be in such a small place without family or adequate medical care nearby.

[pamgarner in reply to Raingrrl]

i do have a couple of close friends that will help,don't take anything for granite😀😀

[goatgal]

Oh dear, I wish I were next door. If I were, I'd help take care of meal preparation. When I broke my wrist, I was one-handed for 3 months, so I know the struggle ahead. And at the same time to have the worry about your man, I'm so sorry for the pair of you. Once again, there's an old adage that fits, it never rains but it pours.

[Neworleanslady]

Praying for you, your husband and your situation

[Amore55]

I am so very sorry. You will both be in my thoughts. Sending hugs and love across the miles! Kelly xxx

[cindyrn68]

Oh no! Praying for your speedy recovery!

[greaterexp]

Oh, dear! I'll be praying for quick healing and for all the help you need as you both heal. Please update us as you are able.

[Texandyroe]

Oh, my goodness. Prayers for strength and speedy healings for you both.

[lbenmaor]

Oh my Pam, I'm so sorry to hear this happened to both of you,I will pray things get better.

Leslie

[carolek572 CommunityAmbassador]

Oh my dear, pamgarner Sending you lots of prayers for a speedy recovery for you and your husband

[mrsmike9]

Oh, you poor thing! It was my upper right arm that broke right before I was diagnosed with MS. Four breaks. I was lucky that I didn't have to have surgery (until I got frozen shoulder.) And your husband, too! You both have your hands full. Happy and fast healing to you both.

[eharoot]

my thoughts and prayers are with you both

[Brindisi1]

Prayers for both of you.

[Raingrrl]

Troubles sure like to accompany each other sometimes! I hope the procedures go well for both you and your husband and that you heal quickly. Do you have family or friends nearby that can help out if needed?