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My wife of forty one years at the age of sixty one passed away yesterday morning 😭. I am so lost, mad, emotional, and wondering WHY πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™‚οΈ. Thanks to all of you for being here so I can vent πŸ˜–πŸ˜©πŸ˜£πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸΎπŸΎ. Ken

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Ken so sorry to hear of your beloved wife's passing. We all are here if you need us. 🌹

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Ken I am so sorry for your loss. To be blessed with someone decades & then suddenly not there it seems unfair. If you want to β€˜talk’ feel free to message me. I was at the losing end 13 years ago and it is still a rough time of year although spring is beautiful.

You lost your wife at the same time my uncle lost his wife of 30 years. My cousin posted a picture of her & her mom in remembrance not realizing it’s been 2 years since her passing.

Again I’m sorry for your loss and when you are ready for answers please message me.

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Oh no Ken I am so sorry! We are always here for you my friend! Please feel free to message me anytime!

~May She Be Wrapped In The Wings Of Angels And Placed In The Hands Of God~

Much Love!πŸ€—πŸ’• Kenu

J🌠

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I'm very sorry to hear this,Kenu. My prayers are with you.

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Ken, I know words are inadequate for what what you are going through. I wish we could all be there in person to show you our love and offer support.

You and I both know the One who will see you through your grief and supply all you need. I will pray constantly that you will feel and see that comfort and peace. I pray He sends just what and whom you need when you need help.

Please write when you are up to it, and let us know how you are.

Erin

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Oh no! I’m so sorry! I will absolutely pray for you! Take lots of deep breaths and plenty of time to grieve.

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I’m so very sorry for your loss!!! Please take good care of you through this very difficult time. πŸ™

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So sorry to hear of your loss, Kenu My prayers are with you.

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I know that your heart is broken and I am truly sorry.πŸ€­πŸ˜”

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Sorry to read about your lost

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Oh, Ken! I can't even imagine your loss! Don't shut us out as you begin your travel down a different road - we are always here for you!

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I am so sorry to hear such devastating news.

I am sure that this is very difficult on so many levels

We are here for you and please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time ❀️

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May the Lord God of all give you strength, comfort and peace to deal with this unfathomable loss.

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I'm so very sorry for the loss of your wife. My thoughts are with you. Please post when you feel that you can Kenu

Jessie

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Thanks to everyone for your prayers as I need them all right now πŸ™. I am not able to take any call as I just loose it and brake down 😭. It is just so hard to understand why πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™‚οΈ. Ken 🐾🐾

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Kenu dear brother, We R very sorry for your unfathomable loss, but do know bro, th@ you'll be together again on HIS shore's of Glory, happy as can be again, HE's always w/ you to comfort you. Sometimes we don't need the WHY, We need true Covenant w/ HIM, keep the memories close to your heart πŸ’—& take care of you for her sake, u'll be together again soon brotherπŸ‘ I weep w/youπŸ˜₯ But just get through this mourning phase w/HIM Holding Your hand & her still ever beside you!πŸ’—πŸŒΌπŸŒΊπŸŒΈπŸ’ πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™Many Prayers go up for you, we're always here for you! Many Blessings!πŸ’πŸ™πŸŒˆ We LπŸ’—VE YA BROTHER! JazzyπŸŒΉπŸ’œ

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My deepest condolences, Kenu. Let it out and take care of YOU!

xo

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I am so sorry Kenu. Please vent all you want. We are good listeners. My sister just lost her husband of 56 years. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Please let us help you any way we can.

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Sorry for your loss. Feel free to vent.

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I know the love and very sorry to hear this.many prayers to you and all who know you.jj

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I am sooo very sorry for your loss. Keep us in mind if you need anyone to talk to and woild even believe if you even wanted to pm anyone to talk to the messenger is available. Mine is open. I'll also be praying for you.

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I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

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I'm so sorry. I feel for you and take comfort in knowing that those moments, or looks, hugs, kisses will be your glue! It's why we can't forget the feelings of their presence. Those feelings keep these bodies moving. We can cherish their memories as we console our soul with the best times.

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I’m so sorry Kenu. My thoughts are with you and your son. May your memories bring you some comfort.

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Ken, my heart breaks for you. I know I would feel lost and devastated without my husband. I'm sending prayers. I hope you have friends and family nearby that you can share your grief with and that you find peace and comfort in the days to come. We are all here for you.

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Much love to you Kenu. I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for your heart ❀️

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I am so sorry for loss! W are here for you when you need us.

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Kenu,

Words alone can never fully express the sorrow felt after learning about the passing of your beloved wife. The Lord is with you always, Kenu. May He gently wrap you in His loving arms and bring comfort and healing to your heart during this difficult time. We are all here for you. God bless you friend...my prayers are with you.

Rev 21:4

Susan

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So sorry for your loss Kenu.....As We Know....Life Is A Miracle...So why shouldn't Death also be A Miracle.....meaning ..YOU Will BE WITH YOUR LOVE AGAIN ONE DAY.

In A BEAUTIFUL place where there is only love and HAPPINESS For INFINITY.

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So very sorry for your loss and pain...you’re in my prayers...

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I am so sorry to hear this. My love and my prayers are with you.

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You have been left behind as your wife's spirit begins its outward journey. Of course you feel alone, abandoned, and lost. You have suffered an enormous shock which only time will heal. Treasure all the memories, be open to the start of each new day, and know that I hold you in the light.

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Ken, I am so sorry for your loss.

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Kenu

I am so sorry for your loss.

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my heart breaks for you,I am soo sorry.that is a long time to be married, it is a whole lifetime, take time to grieve,it is so life altering,I hope you have support so you can get your footing back.We really do care about each other here.please reach out and let us know how you are doing and what we can do.....one of us might have an answer for you

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My thoughts and prayers are with you. I’m so sorry for your loss. Please vent, please let us know how you are doing.

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Sending prayers your way

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So sorry to hear. You must feel like the bottom has dropped out of your life. I am praying that God may grant you comfort and peace. Do allow grief to do it's work. It hurts, but it is necessary.

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Menu, may God grant you healing. I am so very sorry. You must be devastated. Many prayers.

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My condolences for your loss. We dont always understand but know it is always in love. .Prayers for your wife and your family. May you be wrapped in the arms of God and his infinite love . I know it will be difficult . How blessed you are to have such a lovely marriage.

Peace

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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom 11 years ago from a massive heart attack at 68. To loose someone you love very much who you are close to suddenly is hard and a shock. I also lost my mom's mom my grandmother right before my mom with -in that year. It was a very sad time for me. Sudden loose takes a long time to work through.

My prayers are with YOU in this time of sadness. Remember your memories of your beautiful wife. God's bless you

Becky

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My condolences to you!

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From everyone at MSAA headquarters, just know we are thinking about you and your family at this time. As you know and have seen just from the replies here, please know that this Community family is also here to listen and help.

- John, MSAA

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I am truly sorry for your loss, I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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Oh,my goodness, Ken! I am so sorry! My prayers are with you and your family.

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Ken, after being married for 41 years your wife will never be far from you. She's as close as a thought away and I want you to look for her until you recogniΕΊe her signs that she's sitting on your shoulder being your own personal guardian angel!

When you've had a hard day and you are exhausted and totally spent and don't think you can actually make it to the chair 15 feet away. Suddenly a cool breeze crosses your brow and refreshes you and you safely make it to your chair. That breeze is your wife's sweet breath, refreshing you and making sure you are okay and can make it to your Haven of Rest.

When you have been lost in indecision not being able to figure out a problem or finding the exact right way to approach a problem and you are frustrated beyond belief and ready to give up on ever solving the Dilemma. Then out of the blue and answer comes clearly, quickly, and precisely deals with the problem in a way that will be the best possible outcome for yourself, it is your wife Whispering into your ear her Sage advice and different ways of looking at something and best figuring out your dilemma.

When you are exhausted beyond belief and sitting in the dim of Twilight feeling the weight of your loss crushing your shoulders. And your soul is crying for companionship of your wonderful wife, but her chair is empty as your life. When suddenly you feel a gentle squeeze around your shoulders. You feel somehow some way that a presence is near you that is giving you companionship and helping to lift the crushing weight from your shoulders, it is your wife loving you that she has loved you for forever whole life together still there by your side.

Remember she is never farther away then your thoughts. Think about the good years and think about the happiness you shared together and when you think of her, smile. I hope you smile often and understand she is as close as a thought away and always there with you in your memories of the joyous life you shared together. Nothing can take away your grief Ken, but no she is ever near and over time she will help to heal you. She will be waiting for you at the end of your time here on Earth but she has told me she doesn't want you to rush she'll wait as long as she has to. She'll always be at the end of your tunnel just look for the light and you will find your precious wife. Fancy.

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So so sorry to hear this sad news.

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I am so sorry Kenu. I don't have the words to express its. I actually look at my husband when he's sleeping and make sure he's breathing. Not sure how I will go on if something happens. For now all you can do is grieve. Then you can reflect on your life together and eventually you will be able to move on with her as a part of you versus with you.

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I am SO sorry to hear of this. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Vent away. A lot of times it does help to let off steam. Take care of yourself.

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Kenu I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I am having a hard time trying to imagine my life without my husband. May you be blessed as you work through your loss.

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Ken, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. We are all here for you; blessings and peace and prayers of comfort to you.

NeeC

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I am so sorry to hear what happened. I will pray that it will get easier for you.

Warm Wishes,

Leslie

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Oh my gosh. I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for peace & guidance.

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I’m so sorry to hear this, can’t imagine how this hurts. Lifting you up in prayer...peace and comfort at this time🌺

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Prayers sent. I’m so sorry

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You are certainly in my prayers. So sorry for your loss. πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

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Ken,

I am so sorry for your loss😒

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I urge you to go to grief class or group, if you can physically get there. I did when I went thru a similar loss and it helped me quite abit. Contact a nearby church to see if they have one or know of a group that offers one. The group setting is very beneficial, plus I met some very nice people. Being with others undergoing loss and grieving can help. Praying for you.

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Kenu, I am so sorry for your loss. it's such a devastating time. my thoughts and prayers are with you

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u have my prayers

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May peace be with your soul, Ken. Be gentle with yourself.

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Kenu i just read about your wife and I’m so sorry for your loss. It has to be devastating. I can’t begin to imagine what your going thru. But I know that you are a God fearing man and he will bring you comfort.

I’ll be praying for you and your family .

May God bring you peace and comfort thru this trying times.

God bless

Donnie

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Kenu I’m so, so sorry for your loss. My condolences, prayers and special thoughts are with you today and moving forward.

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So sorry to hear of your sad loss. It is going to be a difficult time for you all for some time to come. I really hope that in time - as long as it takes - you will be able to cherish the lovely memories you have made together. Those emotions are very normal, don't hold back the tears, they are very healing. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. :-)

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Oh Ken I am so sorry. You are in my prayers πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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They say the angels cry when we are born because we leave heaven. The day we pass, the angels celebrate and rejoice because we are back home. Kenu you have my sincere condolences. So glad you had your love for 41yrs. Be blessed and always remember the wonderful times you had. Blessings Cynthia

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