Advice to help a loved one

[Turtle001]

Hi everyone, I joined here to have a better understanding of OCD and try to help my partner who is suffering from severe OCD. I find it hard to deal and support and it affects so much of our lives. Hoping i can learn from your stories.

[DoNotFear]

I recommend learning as much as you can about OCD and his "type" to better understand what he is experiencing. A helpful book for me to better encourage and support my daughter is Jon Hershfield's book "When a Family Member Has OCD." Also, iocdf.org is a good source for information and resources about OCD.

[Turtle001 in reply to DoNotFear]

Thank you. Found that book to be recommended a lot. Just got the audiobook and will give it a shot. Our lives just go around OCD.. from not eating properly to clothes having to be in a certain room because they will spread the smell and there will not be cleaned anymore is really a lot to deal with. And I can see he is desperate and not able to handle all of this to the point he comments about suicide is easier..

[LuvSun]

I also recommend Jon Hershfield’s book!

[Turtle001 in reply to LuvSun]

Thank you

[DoNotFear]

There is help for those who struggle with OCD. Is your husband willing to seek help? I know folks who have received help from NOCD at treatmyocd.com/

[Ultra_man007 in reply to DoNotFear]

Even I know people who have used NOCD and had favorable outcomes. Worth a shot. treatmyocd.com/

[Ultra_man007]

It can be difficult to cope with a loved one’s OCD. However, it is important to be compassionate, supportive and non-judgmental towards your loved one. Also, encourage them to seek professional advice/intervention.