This is going to sound very personal but does anybody else suffer with lack of libido or even pain during lovemaking? I almost cried with relief when I recently read that people with MPD's have loss of interest or, often, painful sex. I was sure my husband felt I didn't love him anymore because I didn't want intimacy because of the pain. I had to show him and say "See, I do love you more than anything, I just can't help it" he is a wonderful husband and so understanding so I know its my own guilt about the lack of intimacy in our marriage that is eating me up. Not many husbands would understand as much as he does. I have even asked him to find someone else as I have felt that guilty but he loves me and wants only me. The tears are streaming down my face as I write this. I just want to know if anybody has the same problem.