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What Would you do to entertain autistic son

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Thinking but doesn't seem possible, flight from London, United Kingdom to Poland or Florida, USA.

25 year old nonverbal and low functioning autistic son really wants to be outside and possibly walking.

ipad and tablet no good as he never uses

stickers he can only for 5 minutes and then bored

It would be really nice if someone has done this or travel tips or any advise to such long flight.

He basically doesn't do well when sitting for more than 10-15 minutes or even less

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MRVE

I'm wondering how does your son manage with non-air based travel (car, bus, train)? What does he do when he's maxed out on sitting time? Does he need to get up and move about (I'm assuming that this is an option and apologies if he can't)? The challenge with flights, even if it is a short flight, passengers are required to be seated for some or all of the duration of the journey. If this is going to cause him distress, then entertainment ideas aside, it doesn't seem fair on him, you, or others on the plane. Perhaps try the land options where he could perhaps walk about on a train, or get off at the next stop. When you're confident that he could manage the plane, then think about the entertainment.

And if/when you get there, some airports have videos that explain what happens at the airport. And do take advantage of travel assistance. It makes the process of travel less stressful. Good luck!

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LazyXrayEyes2255 in reply toMRVE

Thank you x yes will consider other methods x good idea!!

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SpeedyH

Is this a holiday for you, or activities for your son? You say he is 'low functioning and non-verbal', has he expressed a desire to fly and visit foreign countries? You say he likes the outdoors and some walking, so how about short trips to places in this country where he can enjoy that. Or a holiday in Devon has beaches, moors, coastal walks, forests, zoos, theme parks, caves, steam railway and loads more for example. Flying and being away from home for days is generally stressful, especially if you don't like technology to entertain you! Perhaps make a list of what your son would like to do and take it from there.

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LazyXrayEyes2255 in reply toSpeedyH

Thank you x I was planning a trips with friends but maybe flying not good idea x

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Balamorym

If it's a trip for you to spend time with friends, another option would be to look into respite care for your son, either ask family members to help or enquire with social services regarding your options. The trip would be more of a break for you then you could think about a different trip with your son which would be centered around his needs and interests.

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LazyXrayEyes2255 in reply toBalamorym

Thanks x I am planning and might make first trip to look around and see what meets his needs and then take him later with well planned journey, thanks for ideas!!

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LazyXrayEyes2255

Thanks will look into x

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